"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No Mission

Southbound29

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I've been an avid reader of sosuave and redpill reddit for a long time now and I've improved immensely with my body and social life and I do well with women. The one thing I'm figuring out now though is I don't have a real mission and it's definitely hurting me. I'm almost finished with my private pilot license which requires a lot of studying and money. That is my real focus right now but after I finish that I'm going to need a real direction but I'm honestly confused about which way to go.

I have a business and its doing great but other than focusing on that I get this lost and melancholy feeling when I think about what else I want in life. Does anyone have any suggestions about exercises or literature that would help point me in the right direction to figure this out ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Read up on and try to understand Abraham Maslow’s Heirarchy of Needs. Right now, you are struggling with self-actualizing. You may (or possibly may not) know your potential, but you don’t know what to use it for. Out of all your strengths and weaknesses and likes and dislikes, what’s something that doing has always made you happy? If it is something that does not make money or provide, then what about other things? Or even so, it doesn’t matter because your business still provides an outlet for you and a means. Just try to do whatever that thing is.

Read some stuff from the Book of Pook about finding a passion and just sticking to it. That can help as well. They can explain things a lot better than me.
 

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I appreciate the help. I read up on it a little and I can say I've pretty much run the same gamut that it follows.
 
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