"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No message.. call back or not?

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I woke up this morning and some chic I met on the net tried to call me after 10pm and I was already asleep due to early work, but she didn't leave a message. WTF?

I'm inclined NOT to call back if she couldn't leave a message.


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Return the call, but pretend like you don't know her. Say something like, "Someone had called me from this number. Who is this?"
 

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Originally posted by AmIAFC
Return the call, but pretend like you don't know her. Say something like, "Someone had called me from this number. Who is this?"

heheh that's a good idea... breaking out the cellie lol
 

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well I called but now SHE didn't answer .. got the v/m and hung up....should I have left message? and if she calls back should I answer or let it go to v/m? After all I am at work and might NOT be able to answer.
 

penkitten

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no let her call you back

she didnt leave a message that way if she wanted to call back it wouldnt look strange to keep calling. maybe you wouldnt know it was her haha

you called her back and did the same thing.

now its her turn to call you again.
 

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If she calls back today, i'm telling her to come over to my place tonight... I'm sick of this phone tag crap... and no I haven't met her yet.
 

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you're a "senior" don juan? and you're wondering about phone calls? ok....
 

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Anyways, call her back. My rule is that I usually call the girl twice (with maybe one message) , it's so obvious the girl knows who you are and if she's not calling. Oh well, on to the next project. And if a girl calls without leaving VM, sure go call back. Back in the beeper days, I always call back if someone leaves a phone number.
 

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Originally posted by speedo_meme
you're a "senior" don juan? and you're wondering about phone calls? ok....
Thanks for the great contribution.. prick.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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