NO means NO! and...

[TTAG]

anything else means YES!

now dont take what I say out of proportion, though in my experience, I have come across something quite unique and want to see what you DJs think?

basically whenever you approach a HB, unless she directly says NO, then she is still interested in you and or a chat.

What Im saying is that when you approach a girl and you say something, and she answers with anything but a NO, then she is interested.

why am I saying this? because guys are direct, they say what they want, girls like to .....um, do the opposite, and will say things as hints. which with guys, does not work. We dont speak ********. anyway, its not a rejection unless she says NO, so if she says something back, she's interested.

look, i have confused myself, anyone get what im saying? can you explain it better?

 

[CantGetADate]

I don't think this is true. I go to college and talk to lots of different pretty girls every single day. It's just casual talk, it means nothing more than that. I do think however that sometimes girls think you are coming on to them. I see what you are saying though, it can be hard to detect those "signs", like knowing if a girl is interested or not.

 

[Cremasta]

I remember reading that conversation is broken up something like this:
56% - body language
37% - tone of voice
7% - vocabulary (actual words used)

If a girl says 'NO' then you've still got 93% to work with. If she is whispering in your ear and dry-humping your leg then that 7% 'NO' really is in the minority.

Just an observation... I think we have all been literally molested by women who were saying 'NO' only a few minutes earlier. When I hear 'NO, Get off me!', THAT is really a 'no'.

 

[Dee-Zy]

yes = green light
red = red light

anything else is orange light ... now tell me, why would you want to live your life in the insecurity of an orange light that can turn red at any time???

that's just me. If it's not green, I next.

Then again, it is because I follow AD's principles.
The traffic light analogy isn't mine though ... I forgot who said it, so I can't give credit