No luck finding girls at bars

[Wiesman44]

I'm a 21, soon to be 22 yr old guy inbetween semesters at school. I go to UConn and so I live in Connecticut. It seems like whatever bar I go to never has lots of single women in it. I mainly go to bars during the weekdays, and there's barely ever single college females there.

Seems like the only place where there's women is at clubs, and I hate clubs. My friends mostly all have g/f's so they wouldnt want to go to clubs anyway.



I've gone to places in Hartford on the weekdays, and even still its not all that great.....

Am i missing something ? Everyone says pick up girls at bars, but the few bars I go to have few females on weekdays, and not a great selection on weekends.

 

[h2o]

you don't have to do approaches in bars/clubs necessarily. i don't have much experience with bars/clubs because i just recently turned 21.

but, you go to uconn, that's a pretty darn big school, you can do approaches on campus...that's what i did, i go to ncsu ...a haha we kicked your ass in bball last year

anyway, yeah, try campus approaches. i actually did daytime approaches before i started trying night time approaches (last weekend). it's actually easier to find lone girls in the day time on campus than it is to find them alone at night. and actually i gotta say i absolutely suck at night time approaches at the moment, but at day time, i'm not bad.

i think once you get day time approaches down, it may be easier to transition to night time. because of course, at night you can drink, and it's just a time when girls expect to get hit on.

i used to live in the boston area...it's not too far. try harvard square, it gets pretty crowded there at nights. (i mean, i've never sarged there, but this is what i remember from when i used to live there).

-gl :woo:

 

[Luveno]

Originally posted by Wiesman44


Seems like the only place where there's women is at clubs, and I hate clubs. My friends mostly all have g/f's so they wouldnt want to go to clubs anyway.

Hey man,

my advice to you would be to learn to like clubs. Go to the clubs on the weekends. Learn how to dance, and find a new set of friends who like to go out to clubs. If you want to pick up girls at social establishments, I regret to inform you that clubs are the best place to do it.

 

[So pimp its scary]

oy, if your new to the whole bar scene it takes a little getting used to the 'rules' and the way things work.

Shyt, the first times I was at the club was to drink till I puked... not so much lately, but for a time (between january - March), between me and my roommate we would, between the two of us, get laid at least once each per weekend.

You're probably going to the wrong club to find those college dirties. All it takes is a plan (how-to approach, determine how easy, where to bring her after) and to be willing to follow through untill you find the right girl.

 

[Derek Flint]

That's just "excuser" talk - all you need is one girl, not a bar/club that's packed with them.

 

[tristan22]

I don't care what anyone says--bars and clubs are tough if you don't have your $hit together.

My typical night at a bar:

1. I get hit on by girls i'm not attracted to.

2. I get yelled at for approaching a psycho/s.

3. I get several numbers.

4. I leave not giving a $hit, b/c numbers do not mean anything until you actually get a date.

Basically i no longer have expectations. I don't get excited anymore about getting a number and i don't freak out when i see hot girls. I just go with the flow and let whatever happens, happen.

 

[aftershock]

Bars and clubs are easy.

The "dance close" is the easiest move you'll ever pull off - I'll explain if you like.

Learn to have a good time first of all, in whatever club you go in.

 

[h2o]

Originally posted by aftershock
Bars and clubs are easy.

The "dance close" is the easiest move you'll ever pull off - I'll explain if you like.

Learn to have a good time first of all, in whatever club you go in.

i know there's tons of threads/tips on this already, but this is one area i am new to. could you explain? thanks, i think the OP would probably appreciate it too.

 

[Cheat_LBJ]

Re: Re: No luck finding girls at bars

Originally posted by Luveno
Hey man,

my advice to you would be to learn to like clubs. Go to the clubs on the weekends. Learn how to dance, and find a new set of friends who like to go out to clubs. If you want to pick up girls at social establishments, I regret to inform you that clubs are the best place to do it.

For some of us very white folks, no amount of practice in the world will stop us from looking extraordinarily goofy on the dance floor.

 

[Wiesman44]

Okay guys. I'm not asking u how to approach and hit on girls. I have no problem with that. I still have plenty of work, but I can finally say I'm out of AFC mode......I know this b/c i don't need women to be happy anymore, and once I do get a girl, she's never my top priority.........but anyway


My question was, I go to bars. Yet, every bar i've been at has very few girls in their early 20's. WHile at UConn, don't worry about giving me tips, I'm all up on that UConn p#ssy.

Is there a trick to finding the right bar / pub that will have women. Every bar I go to during weeknight is a sausage fest. The only decent bars are the ones near nightclubs, and thats like 30 mins away from me, not including getting city traffic.

Should i just go to every bar in my area alone during the weekday nights.....wtf ? I swear to god the last 5 times I've went to bars on the weeknights I've seen 0 girls worth approaching.

 

[aftershock]

Originally posted by h2o
i know there's tons of threads/tips on this already, but this is one area i am new to. could you explain? thanks, i think the OP would probably appreciate it too.

I did but then it told me to log in again and I lost it - so I will but give me a few days!

Looking goofy on the dance floor isn't as bad as you'd think but thats for another thread.

 

[Derek Flint]

Originally posted by Wiesman44
Okay guys. I'm not asking u how to approach and hit on girls. I have no problem with that. I still have plenty of work, but I can finally say I'm out of AFC mode......I know this b/c i don't need women to be happy anymore, and once I do get a girl, she's never my top priority.........but anyway


My question was, I go to bars. Yet, every bar i've been at has very few girls in their early 20's. WHile at UConn, don't worry about giving me tips, I'm all up on that UConn p#ssy.

Is there a trick to finding the right bar / pub that will have women. Every bar I go to during weeknight is a sausage fest. The only decent bars are the ones near nightclubs, and thats like 30 mins away from me, not including getting city traffic.

Should i just go to every bar in my area alone during the weekday nights.....wtf ? I swear to god the last 5 times I've went to bars on the weeknights I've seen 0 girls worth approaching.

A whole 30 minutes?

Man, you might as well just stay home if you're going to have to travel a whole 30 minutes each way to meet women.

That's time you could be using to hope that they come to your house and knock on your front door.

Seriously, if you want to meet women, you have to go where they congregate, whether it be the beach, the mall, clubs, church wherever.

Does this really need to be explained?

As for weeknights, Thursday is usually the best weeknight for going out as people have jobs and school and such during the week.

Also, things tend to start earlier and end earlier.

Also, you may want to check out bars that have "Happy Hour" which usually is some type of promotion like drink specials or cheap/free food.

Usually, Happy Hour runs from about 5-7 PM and is populated with the after-work crowd.

Best bet is to start asking around, and to go online to do some research.

Try here for starters:

http://barsandnightlife.citysearch.com/