"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DiamondCutter30

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Been with this girl for about a year, we do all kinds of things sexually but she will not kiss me. When i go to kiss her she turns away. I have great oral hygine perfect stright white teeth, i don't get it i'm good enough to screw but not kiss? Also will not let me come to her apartment. Makes a big deal about me wanting to come over and chill with her. She can't come to my place cuz i'm married and so knows that i'm married she new it going into it. She is single so i don't see what the deal is with me coming over should i push the issue?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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squirrels

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She's not interested in you romantically. She wants to f*ck you and that's it.

WTF, man? You're married and you want to go cuddle with another woman at her place?? Get your priorities straight.

If you MUST f*ck around behind your old lady's back, that's ALL it should be...f*cking around.

You are a prime example of why extramarital sex always causes drama...because you're catching feelings for the girls you're screwing around with. Either learn to separate "love" and "sex", or stop screwing around and start being faithful to your wife.

I hope you don't have kids and I hope you're not denying them your time while you go to "hang out" at this girl's place.

She's probably not kissing you or letting you come over because she feels guilty breaking up a family and wants to make sure it stays "just sex".
 

speed dawg

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What squirrels said.

Step back and look at your life objectively. Get your sh1t straight, dude. You're going AFC on your adulterous fvck buddy here.
 

KontrollerX

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Yeah squirrelz is right she doesn't want a relationship so don't press that or any issue that would bring needless drama to your life.

Just fvck her and enjoy it for as long as it lasts.

And you were a fool for getting married to begin with as its clear you just want to bang around.

You should seriously consider getting a divorce (but only if you were smart enough to get an airtight prenup especially in this bad economy) so you can get more out of life that you really want to have.
 

DJDamage

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Yep like what everyone else's said. It is the reason why hookers don't kiss their clients on the lips, but its all business down below.

and wtf are you doing cheating on your wife? if you cheat you are probably going to get caught because you have no control over your mistress if things end up going south, and she might decide to ring your wife out of revenge and spite. I hope you don't have any kids because the courts will not even bother hearing your case after finding out you fvcked someone else while being married and you are going to pay for it for the rest of your life while your kids (if u have any) probably will never forgive you for this sh1t.

You want to fvck around? then get a divorce and it will make your life simpler afterwards.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DiamondCutter30

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I'll take your advice to heart. You right i did'nt seperate between love & sex. I did catch feelings for this girl and she knows it. Been out the game for 28years I'll just enjoy the ride and take it for what it's worth. I'm so glad i found this site.
 
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