"No incentive for her to cheat when nobody else can compare to you [in bed]" - true?

[megarandom]

This is a quote from the book Sex God Method, where it says that if you're the best a woman has had in bed, she has no incentive to cheat on you.

This made me stop to think. In a way it makes perfect sense, because really if the quality of sex she'll get from another guy won't be as good as you, then what reason does she have to cheat?

So here's my question: If you're the best a woman has ever had in bed, what reasons might she still have to cheat on you?

Another way to word my question: How important is the quality of sex you have with her, compared to other factors that cause her to cheat, in determining her faithfulness towards you?

 

[goodfoot]

False. How would she even know unless she slept with the new guy anyway?

 

[megarandom]

You're right, good point. Let me ask it in a different way: If a woman feels fully satisfied sexually by you, then what reason might she still have to cheat?

And still: How important is the quality of sex you have with her, compared to other factors that cause her to cheat, in determining her faithfulness towards you?

 

[armourknight]

Reason, she might still have to cheat - Money !
Even if you are a "sex-god". When money talks bull sh**t walks !

 

[5string]

I call BS!

You can be a freekin porn star in bed and have a monster unit, but the bottom line is women like variety just as men do.

 

[oneboy21]

The article is not accurate.
women cheat when they want to cheat, you cannot stop it.
these days women want lots of things to be consider them self happy, if even they have all of that, they still need more.

 

[Iceberg]

You're right, good point. Let me ask it in a different way: If a woman feels fully satisfied sexually by you, then what reason might she still have to cheat?

The same reason that might cause you or I to cheat.....the desire to try something new.

There's no formula to predicting human behavior. It's not like "good sex = 100% faithful".

And still: How important is the quality of sex you have with her, compared to other factors that cause her to cheat, in determining her faithfulness towards you?

You seem to be very concerned about women cheating on you. Is this an issue you've dealt with many times before?

If your concern is preventing cheating, there's really not much you can do. Humans end up doing what they want to do.

My only advice is to date the right kind of woman. I can tell pretty early on which kind of girl is likely to cheat on me. And those girls I'd be happy to keep around as f**k buddies, but I damn sure wouldn't commit to them emotionally. Date around enough and you'll develop the instincts to evaluate a good prospect.

 

[vatoloco]

My only advice is to date the right kind of woman. I can tell pretty early on which kind of girl is likely to cheat on me. And those girls I'd be happy to keep around as f**k buddies, but I damn sure wouldn't commit to them emotionally. Date around enough and you'll develop the instincts to evaluate a good prospect.

QFT. If I could +1, I would.

I would add that not only do you need the right kind of woman, you also need to feed her the wide range of emotions that her little hamster needs.

 

[ArcBound]

Whether a girl cheats is not dependent on how you satisfy her in any of her "needs". It is dependent on her character which is hard to judge since it is actually very distinct from personality.

 

[perseverance]

The article is not accurate.
women cheat when they want to cheat, you cannot stop it.
these days women want lots of things to be consider them self happy, if even they have all of the,, they still need more.

I echo this sentiment.

 

[The_411]

Being good in bed only diminishes the chance she'll cheat.

Alcohol, money, drugs, boredom, plus a million other reasons are why a woman cheats so even if you are sex god it doesn't prevent her from straying.

 

[oneboy21]

Arcbound said it!

 

[Lexington]

That sounds like a good idea in theory but women can cheat even if they are sexually satisfied. Think about it, even if you were banging the hottest piece of ass, you would still be tempted by hot women that you come across. Not everyone (man or woman) is capable of resisting the temptation.

 

[bigneil]

A woman with high interest level will not cheat.

 

[pipe007]

not necessarily cheat, but doesnt mean she wont get tired of you and dump you.

have seen it so many times its not even funny... yes I can give my girls 4-5 multiple orgasms in a night, I always have my exes say "you are amazing, you deserve a trophy, how do you do it." "everytime we do it it feels better and better and better." blah blah blah

if they need to move on they will, it doesnt matter if you are her first or second...... sex doesnt mean much this days.

sure there are girls who really equal sex with love and i want one like taht... but most girls now a days i believe have disconnected the word sex from love, she might love you but she doesnt feel sexually aroused, or she might wanna have sex with you, doesnt mean she wants to stay with you.

sex does not equal love.