"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No Hot Girls

B-Lemond

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The school I go to has NO HOT GIRLS! Most of them are either ugly, orverweight, or TOO skinny. The few that are hot are sluts and they do drugs. I don't know about you guys but I know (and Spergon whos gonna be reading this can back me up) that I don't like girls who do drugs. And who would want to bring a slut home to mom anyway? I know that school isn't the only place to get girls, so outside of our school, it's the same story. Either fat, ugly, skinny, sluts or drugs. It seems that there are NO beautiful girls who don't do drugs and that aren't sluts in Delaware. I'm not trying to say that I don't mac on girls because I do. It's just that it's really hard to find a girl who looks good while staying sober and not being a slut. These girls that I do mac on are.......you guessed it either sluts, ugly, skinny, fat, or they do drugs. In your opinion do you think it would be better to have and ugly, fat, skinny, slut, or druggie girl than to not have one at all? And what would you do if all you found were these types of girls?

O AND A TIP FOR YOU GUYS OUT THERE..............NEVER GO TO DELAWARE! AT LEAST NOT TO FIND A GIRL!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PiHiPlaya

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Why are you so concerned about being with a girl. If all the girls are repulsive why don't you just chill out and go read a book or work out or something.

Just do what makes you happy and don't worry about girls. If you keep demanding perfection you're never gonna find a girl that you will be attracted to.

Since you're against "sluts" it looks like you're not gonna be getting action because apparently for you, random hookups are out of the question.

Just focus on something other than girls, you'll stumble across a prude beauty eventually.
 

Snowyk

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I knew a guy back in HS who said the exact same thing about our school.

And we had plenty of fine women.

So while we were out having fun and getting experience with women, he was sitting at home, having a bat, and wondering why nobody loved him.

I mean, a mate of mine had a gf who was a model, she was gorgeous, and this guy would look at her and go "hmm, she has like a little tiny mole on her cheek there, shes not THAT hot, I've seen better"

If your standards are rediculously high, you might have to let them slide to get experience.
Or, start making your way around other area schools.
 

dannowillbookem

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lol times like these i'm happy (kinda) that i go to our county's prepkid school.

lotttts of fine, respectable ladies.
 

gravstar

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What's wrong with random hookups? Unless your looking for a ltr just go for the hot sluts. Honestly experience is better than nothing, you've gotta get the points for the future.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thraxeh

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there must be some average girls. with like 8/10 bodys and 6 or 7/10 face.
 
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