"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No guys, paternity fraud isn't actually as common as you guys think [PART 2]

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Alright, so here's the thing: we know that people who go to paternity testing clinics are more likely to be victims of paternity fraud (I mean, they have doubts for a reason, right?). Currently, that rate is at 25.9% (reported by paternity clinics themselves as of 2008 at least). We also know that in the US, there are around 400,000 paternity tests each year as of 2008.

For the sake of argument, let's overestimate the number of paternity tests to be 500,000 each year, with an incidence of 50% non-paternity. Extreme over-estimations, but whatever.

This would equate to 250,000 children each year not being fathered by the person they think is actually the father.

Now we also know that in the US, there are around 4 million births each year. The CDC stated that there were 3,791,712 births in 2018, which is the lowest it's been over 30 years.

Now look at this data:

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I added the number of total people here and calculated the percentage of misattributed paternity. I only looked at the US data because let's face it, American women are the worst in the world lol.

So, the number came out to be 2.37% for the rest of the population that did not have a paternity test. Granted, this number isn't 100% accurate due to logistical issues, such as how black people are disproportionately more likely to have paternity misattribution but also only make up 12.7% of the population, or how research still tends to be made up mostly white people, or how these studies are pretty old and most of them didn't have precise DNA-testing technology for paternity like how we do now.

Despite this however, it still is a pretty good estimate just because firstly, women's rights activists from the 20s were interested in pursuing paternity-testing technology (because back then, dads used to say "hey I'm going to the store to buy a pack of cigarettes, I'll be right back" and then they end up never coming back lol). Secondly, women were also more likely to get away with paternity fraud back then, so when looking at the data, you'll find that instances of false paternity are higher in the years before 1988 (the year paternity testing came out) than after.

But for the sake of argument, let's double it anyway; 4.74% false paternity for the rest of the population.

3.8 million - 500,000 = 3.3 million
3.3 million × 4.74% = 156,574

(156,574 + 250,000) ÷ 3.8 million = 10.7%

Now the thing is, this is a gross overestimation. I'll save you the mathwork, but the real percentage without all of these astronomically insane (and honestly unreasonable) overestimations is actually 4.73%

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Part 1: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ctually-as-common-as-you-think-part-1.264061/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Great that you've researched this. Although women have their faults, they often get used for exaggerated talking points. Such as the "she gets pounded by the football team" meme.
 

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Also, here is some extra reading along with some other calculations, just in case any of you want some actual published research:

This first one says only around 1.7% of men (who are confident that the child is theirs) are not actually the father (most of them are married). It says 1.9% in the abstract, but that's incorrect because the conclusion and results both state 1.7%. Men with low paternity confidence (basically people who get paternity tests) are not the father 29.8% of the time. The full study is in a PDF attached (**** you JSTOR).

This second one right here says 3.7% of men (who are confident that the child is theirs) aren't the fathers. For those who are not confident the child is theirs, it is 26.9%.

We know that 7.5% - 11.6% of the US population gets a paternity test each year. Feel free to play around with the statistics if you want to draw your conclusions. Most numbers shouldn't be over 10%, and more accurate numbers do tend to fall around my original 4.723% false paternity rates I stated above. Rates are still likely to be lower though according to the first researcher (and surprisingly, many others now that I have thoroughly read up on the subject).
 

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So about 1 in 20 aren't the father's?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In a population pool of 1 billion, 1 in 20 would be 50 million ppl.
 
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