no girlfriend ever

[PlayerInTraining9987]

I'm new to this site and this is my first post. I have been reading the sosuave.com site and the posts on this site. Anyway I'm 21 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I have had sex with some girls and have been to get girls numbers. I've always got girls interested in me for a little while but they never want to take it to a relationship level. I just don't get it. I believe that I'm a handsome guy and I just started working out again. And I'm not a "nice guy" but I'm not a jerk either, i'm somewhere in between. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

[Phyzzle]

Give us a "field report" of the last (sober) girl you laid. What did you do in the days afterward? Maybe you're doing something obviously wrong we can point out.

 

[aussiegoat55]

Read DJ Bible http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/, section on Long Term Relationships

 

[Obsidian]

i'm 21 also and I've never really had an exclusive girlfriend either. Just keep logging in to this site and keep up the self-improvement.

 

[PlayerInTraining9987]

Well I met this girl at a party. She was really into me we just started talking about a lot of stuff. We both weren't involved in relationships and the next day I called her and brought ner over to my friends house. So we were just chilling then I ask her to come up stairs with me. We go to the bedroom, I start kissing her and massaging her and before I knew it we were getting it on. The next few days I called her but she didn't sound interested anymore. I guess it just wasn't good to her.

 

[Soyoushave]

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The next few days I called her

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but she didn't sound interested anymore.

How often did you call her...you don't want to sound desperate to have some more of what she gave you