"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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no game at the club...

chancer

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I went to a club/party and finally grabed my balls and talked to one girl who was sitting down. So I get her to the dance floor and we start dancing and all and then she said she was tired, so we went back to the sofas. It seemed like she was feeling me, but every time I said something it was stupid and turned her off. This is pretty depressing... It's like I took a huge step backward, I don't know what to say :/
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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first try, first failure
I don't see anything special in this. Just keep on practicing. Someone who has never done athletics won't be able to jump 6 meters at the beginning.
 

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don' take it so hard. it might have been a bonafide, no holds barred, unqualified failure.

but big deal. everybody blows it and everybody blows it pretty often. everyone who succeeds has a long trail of failure behind them.

so don't sweat it.

it's only bad if it makes you stop. keep going, keep learning, learn from your mistakes (keep your eyes open) and keep going.

delta
 

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Delta your right, i know it, i think he knows it.
To the OP take what they have said as true, its happens to everyone, what you have to overcome is the feeling of failure. Some people react (like i used too) very badly to it, and fall inside themselves. Say if their friends saw them do it, or they think people are watching, then they go home and think its the end of the world.

I dont know how to put it in words, maybe someone else does, but you have to find something inside yourself thats says, hey boy, leanr from your mistakes, ignore everyone else.

What techniques to people use to overcome themselves/despair?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Unless you're an extremely good conversationalist, it takes at least 10 visits to the club to really grasp what's going on. The most important thing is to have control over the whole situation. You must get to know the scene, watch those who are picking up girls everynight, and go for some trial and error.

If you are having trouble with conversating, then at least give yourself a boost as far as show goes. Dress stylish, but not like everyone else. Act classy, but also sexual when need be. Have commanding body language and don't hesitate showing it off. Don't hesitate to stare down any woman and smile. If you command this type of presence, then when it comes to the conversation, it will make it that much easier.
 

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No offence intended, but what the ****, thats is the biggest load of.......
good luck!!!
 
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