"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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an easy way, is like playing pick up games of basketball, and u instantly meet new people
Talk to people wheerever u go, if u work out, talk to guys there
meet people everywhere....
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Or get a job where you'll meet people. Then round up girls there, and take them out on the weekend. Maybe a coffee shop. Think about what kind of person you are, and find something that fits.
Like if you're sort of an artist/intellectual type, coffee shop can be a good idea. Like Star Bucks or something.
This is all of course, assuming that your problem is that you have nothing to do with your weekend, not that your friends are gay.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Exactly focus on you proffesional and sexual life ,spend more time with your family ...males really are the" new females",most guys nowadays get very intimadated around a confident man(dj's ,player,and just confident guys in general)and they almost always ****block or aren't skilled enough to be wingmen so guys serve even less of a purpose then women in this case.
My guess is that the freinds you have now are hard to get off the coach and turn off their playstation's right ? Mine are (or were) also ..the solution i started focusing on my schoolwork and getting laid and only hung out with them if both parties had free time and i had nothing better to do.
Plus most younger guys are already used to their little circle of freinds at this time and don't look for new ones.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I agree with the above. Do things you enjoy, and you'll end up meeting people that do the same things. I like to Mountain Bike. I've met a few guys out on the trails. Even one female.
Same with the gym, running, etc... (I'm thinking of joining a running club. There's more women than men there. It's a little cold right now, though...)
I don't have too many guy friends. Like what was said above. They all seem to be too competetive when it comes to women.
Just remember, it up to you. You have to get out of the house and seek other people out. They aren't going to come to you...
The biggest thing I learnt on this site is thats its your own damn fault. You want friends? You do what it takes to get them. Go to a sports bar and talk to the guys about the local team etc.
Do something interesting so that your current "friends" want to hang out with you. Ask them if they want to go do X. They say no. Then you actually go and do X. Take pictures. Make X fun. Take pics of all the cute girls at X. Make a game of it.
But trust me. You 100% control the outcome when large groups are concerned. IE you want guy friends that is easy as long as you willing to be friends with the guys willing to be friends with you.
Kinda like girls...