"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No friends outside of school

we all eat food

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I HAVE FRIENDS IN SCHOOL!

but not outside, i dont how to intiate them coming to my house. Im completley clueless when it comes to doing stuff and im a always a little ***** when i comes to this
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ4Real

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First, get to know how them.

And then, get there email so you can plan hang outs.

Become good friends.

And then invite them over.
 

DaKidS3

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i dont how to intiate them coming to my house.
Coming to your house? What do you want a play date with some guy or something?

Find out where parties are or something. Play a sport. You'll be around those kids for months, and during that, you'll probably become friends with them.
 

DJ4Real

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
Coming to your house? What do you want a play date with some guy or something?
:crackup:
 
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