"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No friends outside of school

we all eat food

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I HAVE FRIENDS IN SCHOOL!

but not outside, i dont how to intiate them coming to my house. Im completley clueless when it comes to doing stuff and im a always a little ***** when i comes to this
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ4Real

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First, get to know how them.

And then, get there email so you can plan hang outs.

Become good friends.

And then invite them over.
 

DaKidS3

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i dont how to intiate them coming to my house.
Coming to your house? What do you want a play date with some guy or something?

Find out where parties are or something. Play a sport. You'll be around those kids for months, and during that, you'll probably become friends with them.
 

DJ4Real

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
Coming to your house? What do you want a play date with some guy or something?
:crackup:
 
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