"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No freakin idea what to do here..help me.

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OK, I have been on two dates with this girl who I really like (although she doesn't know that ;) ). Her interest level is high in me as well, so things are going well. But I have a little predicament coming up b/c of my recent graduation-

I have a big family party at a restaurant by my house on June 26th. We probably will have went on about 5 "dates" by then. I don't know if I should invite her or not...ususally this could be avoided by just not telling her. But I can't do that with this girl...

Since this is one of my best friends girlfriends SISTER...now she is undoubtedly going to find out. Obviously my best friend is getting the invite. I have been manually handing out the invitations so I haven't given him his yet. So now...I need to decide to invite:

My best friend, HIS GIRLFRIEND AND HER SISTER (the girl I am dating)

Or

Just my best friend.

Give me some advice here guys, I only got about 11 days. :confused: :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't see the problem????? :confused: I'm confused by you being confused!:rolleyes:

One more person = one more gift!!:)
 
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I dont see the problem here.

the more people = the more presents.
 
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Originally posted by Centaurion
I dont see the problem here.

the more people = the more presents.
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^^^:p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ASUknowit18

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Meeting the family...especially my family (Italian, close, loud and obnoxious) isn't the easiest place to communicate. I don't care about the presents...my cheap ass friends aren't going to get me anything anyway.

So you guys are just thinking to invite her, then...
 
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Why would you need to communicate? you have been on 5 or more dates with this girl by then. I say just invite her and have some fun.

You worry too much.. :)
 
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Originally posted by Caveman
Why would you need to communicate? you have been on 5 or more dates with this girl by then. I say just invite her and have some fun.

You worry too much.. :)
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Thanks for the reply...

Sorry, I wasn't being clear. I was talking about with my crazy family. :p

I guess I will just invite her and her sister...
 
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