"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No freakin idea what to do here..help me.

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OK, I have been on two dates with this girl who I really like (although she doesn't know that ;) ). Her interest level is high in me as well, so things are going well. But I have a little predicament coming up b/c of my recent graduation-

I have a big family party at a restaurant by my house on June 26th. We probably will have went on about 5 "dates" by then. I don't know if I should invite her or not...ususally this could be avoided by just not telling her. But I can't do that with this girl...

Since this is one of my best friends girlfriends SISTER...now she is undoubtedly going to find out. Obviously my best friend is getting the invite. I have been manually handing out the invitations so I haven't given him his yet. So now...I need to decide to invite:

My best friend, HIS GIRLFRIEND AND HER SISTER (the girl I am dating)

Or

Just my best friend.

Give me some advice here guys, I only got about 11 days. :confused: :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't see the problem????? :confused: I'm confused by you being confused!:rolleyes:

One more person = one more gift!!:)
 
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Centaurion

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I dont see the problem here.

the more people = the more presents.
 
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Originally posted by Centaurion
I dont see the problem here.

the more people = the more presents.
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^^^:p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ASUknowit18

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Meeting the family...especially my family (Italian, close, loud and obnoxious) isn't the easiest place to communicate. I don't care about the presents...my cheap ass friends aren't going to get me anything anyway.

So you guys are just thinking to invite her, then...
 
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Why would you need to communicate? you have been on 5 or more dates with this girl by then. I say just invite her and have some fun.

You worry too much.. :)
 
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Originally posted by Caveman
Why would you need to communicate? you have been on 5 or more dates with this girl by then. I say just invite her and have some fun.

You worry too much.. :)
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Thanks for the reply...

Sorry, I wasn't being clear. I was talking about with my crazy family. :p

I guess I will just invite her and her sister...
 
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