"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Q-Pid

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Why is that?
LoL this is like an AFC/KBDJ hotbed. FRs are the best things ot learn from!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think getting your ass away from the computer and livng this shyt is the best teacher. Who cares what some other guy did; What the **** are you willing to do?

YOU= rhetorical you. Not you personally so dont throw any byatch ass sparks my way.
 

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You have over 900 posts. Practice what you preach.

We are social animals, we can learn through other people's mistakes.
 

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This has been brought up numerous times before. End result is it's not happening unless the owner of the site decides it should - which has a better chance of happening if there are a consistent number of Field Reports being posted over time in DJD. Thanks, closed.
 
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