"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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No Fear - First attempts pays off

The Max

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Hi Guys,

this is my first post.

I am reading the Bible as we speak and loving every minute of it. I never imagined such a community that could help me on my way to success in life and with woman.

I have a situation

I'm only a quarter of the way through and I decided to try a shock and awe tactic on a girl to get her number and a date.

Shes worked at the local supermarket for a while and I flirt with her when I go in. Last visit to the shops, I decided to use a "blow her out of the water tactic" .. she is so young and pretty... it took so much confidence.. I went and bought a single rose and attached my business card to it with a small note telling her shes nice.. and that i'd like to go out with her some time. .. i plucked up the courage to walk over and deliver it

"this is random.. but I just wanted to give you this"

she smiled and I walked away.

I FELT HI WITH GLORY

this is one of the tactics ,,, the leave an impression tactic that she wil tell her friends about.

Late last night.. I get a Text message...

" hayy, thanks heaps for the rose, how old are you?"

Me: 'I'm glad u liked it , I'm 21, whats your name, hold old r u?

her: 'I'm 16 this year "

my jaw dropped !!

I had no idea she was so young.

So chaps.. Im stil keen on her... and I can't realy do anything with her until shes 16 cause it's ilegal over here... but I need some advice on handling the situation.

I told her i would like to go out with her sometime.. and she said " that sounds good"

However.. I don't know what to do from here?

My last communication to her was

" text me l8r and i'll call to make plans"

It's now the evening... and still no text.

I probably should have just called her initially..??
so now what,.,,

1. Do i call here tomorow ....
2. Do i wait for her to text me and then call?
3. If i left her the option to text me when shes free.. have i stuffed up?

I have not made a date or time as yet.. so i need to call her to make arrangements..but If i call to soon.. i'll seem desperate.

Whats the best place to take a young girl of this age on a date..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Max

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Lets forget the age... I'm not an ******* and won't do the wrong thing by her if shes only young.... but shes very hot.. and worth the effort .. for a longer term view.

She has sinced text me telling me she will call me tonight.. so I am now letting her come to me.. this is the plan.. letting her do the work.

I am yet to have aplan of attack regarding the date.

I thought i'd take her to a movie.... and then maybe putt putt golf or something ? any ideas guys.. the first date has to be prime.. she just so hot .I can't be boring..
 

The Max

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went out for a ot chocolate...

she was way to young in the head... so I won't be seeing her again. she said shes had 3 ex's in the last 2 years. which means she was having sex at 13... thats just not my type ...

I have another hotty lined up tonight .. lets see how that pans out.
 

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ewww man, thats creepy, let the poor 16 yr old go.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by The Max
went out for a ot chocolate...

she was way to young in the head... so I won't be seeing her again. she said shes had 3 ex's in the last 2 years. which means she was having sex at 13... thats just not my type ...

I have another hotty lined up tonight .. lets see how that pans out.
I think you should've of gone out with her in the first place. But oh well.. It's all done.. time to move on! And if she's that hot I guess her age didn't matter!

Anyways, good luck with that hottie tonight man!
 
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