"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No fat over the tummy... still resembles one like a 3rd world country :)

Microphone Fiend

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Well, it's not that bad,,,,, but I'm not seeing any results, with one side being more developed than the other side, and my ribs(or muscles) come across and join to my abs kinda at the top section. It looks kinda sloppy and I want to try and get the shape better.

Does anyone have a suggestion on what would be a good idea to get the shape better, or allign the muscles together? ANy input would be appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think he is saying that his muscles are more developed on one side than the other. I would do less work on the more developed side but you have to be sure you know which muscle you are working. I have the same thing with my arms, one is bigger than the other so I am working one more now, but it isn't a very noticable difference in my case.
 

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It's normal.
 

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Its normal dude.. your stomach is on one side.. with some other organs..

you need to lose more body fat and make sure you ad an ab workout to your program so that when the fat is gone the abs are ready to be seen.. the problem will clear its self up .
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Metaphor
You can't shape muscles.
isn;t that what toning muscles is?

Shopuld I focus on my obliques more or less?
 

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
isn;t that what toning muscles is?

Shopuld I focus on my obliques more or less?
No, the SHAPE of your muscles is already predetermined by genetics so you can't "shape" it. "Toning" muscle is merely lowering bodyfat so you can see more definition. If your abdominals are misaligned there is nothing you can do to change that because its your genetics. As far as oblique training goes, train them but WITHOUT weighted resistance because you don't want them to become larger making your waist appear larger and your V-Taper less prominent.
 

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My wrestling coach used to have us do tons of "Rocky" situps and to this day I regret it because of the size of my obliques. If you're training for strangth, powerlifting, etc, hit them hard, because they're part of your core and essential to being strong. If you're training for looks..avoid training your obliques.
 
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