"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hello Dons. Question. So Suave is it even possible to maintain a rock hard frame in No Fap while mentally masturbating daily about women and svcking yourself off online in virtual locker room dink measuring contests? I dont understand.
How does one auto-fellate themselves in braggadocious posts yet partake in no fap simultaneously? It's like saying you aren't going to pull your pud to women but look in the mirror and rub several out to yourself online instead disguised as improvement. Wtf?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hello Dons. Question. So Suave is it even possible to maintain a rock hard frame in No Fap while mentally masturbating daily about women and svcking yourself off online in virtual locker room dink measuring contests? I dont understand.
How does one auto-fellate themselves in braggadocious posts yet partake in no fap simultaneously? It's like saying you aren't going to pull your pud to women but look in the mirror and rub several out to yourself online instead disguised as improvement. Wtf?
We should be off of here and fvcking babes. Fapping is getting stuck in nuetral and enjoying it . It gets you no where.
 

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Everybody masterbates, with or without a steady pvssy around.

Anyone who says they don't is either a liar or has some serious biological problems that needs some serious medical intervention.
 

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Hello Dons. Question. So Suave is it even possible to maintain a rock hard frame in No Fap while mentally masturbating daily about women and svcking yourself off online in virtual locker room dink measuring contests?
LMAO!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Everybody masterbates, with or without a steady pvssy around.

Anyone who says they don't is either a liar or has some serious biological problems that needs some serious medical intervention.
So addiction is the norm these days?

I'd add that ideology is the mother of all addictions. Ad- dict-ion... to the word... to the letter of the word. And then ideology is the justification of our addictions. This is what mental masturbation is... it can produce nothing. Critical thought however, opens the mind to possibilities.
 

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So addiction is the norm these days?

I'd add that ideology is the mother of all addictions. Ad- dict-ion... to the word... to the letter of the word. And then ideology is the justification of our addictions. This is what mental masturbation is... it can produce nothing. Critical thought however, opens the mind to possibilities.
I masterbate in the morning even when I hv a pvssy next to me, even when I fvcked like a fvcking rabbit last night.

It ain't addiction, and it aint about pvssy, it's just letting off some steam, for some reason my d1ck is always hard in the morning and letting off some steam gets me in a good mood to soldier on during the day, makes me horny in the afternoon and by night I'm ready 2 fvck again.

It's biological and don't make it sound like it's bad as in taking drugs.

I repeat once more; those of you that hv problems masterbating r seriously flawed, biologically flawed, go get urself checked up ASAP.
 

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I masterbate in the morning even when I hv a pvssy next to me, even when I fvcked like a fvcking rabbit last night.

It ain't addiction, and it aint about pvssy, it's just letting off some steam, for some reason my d1ck is always hard in the morning and letting off some steam gets me in a good mood to soldier on during the day, makes me horny in the afternoon and by night I'm ready 2 fvck again.

It's biological and don't make it sound like it's bad as in taking drugs.

I repeat once more; those of you that hv problems masterbating r seriously flawed, biologically flawed, go get urself checked up ASAP.
Why not just try an experiment where you choose to not pleasure yourself for a fortnight or so?

If you can not do it, you could have a problem... as in a compulsion/ addiction.

Why not test yourself?
 

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Why not just try an experiment where you choose to not pleasure yourself for a fortnight or so?

If you can not do it, you could have a problem... as in a compulsion/ addiction.

Why not test yourself?
Yeah, it's better not to get too comfortable with masturbating regularly but as long as one doesn't masturbate 10 times a day (over exaggeration) and takes hours out of their day to do so or masturbate whenever they see an a$$ (including in public), I wouldn't consider it an addiction.
 

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Yeah, it's better not to get too comfortable with masturbating regularly but as long as one doesn't masturbate 10 times a day (over exaggeration) and takes hours out of their day to do so or masturbate whenever they see an a$$ (including in public), I wouldn't consider it an addiction.
But no harm in testing yourself right? And then if you can take it or leave it....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you aint getting ***** you definatley should not be fapping.

Ever wonder why "wanker" and "jerk off" are insults?

It just lets dudes be lazy.

Only time fapping is acceptable is if in a relationship and your gf is away or you are away and sex isn't an option.
 

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Why not just try an experiment where you choose to not pleasure yourself for a fortnight or so?

If you can not do it, you could have a problem... as in a compulsion/ addiction.

Why not test yourself?
I choose to follow what comes naturally since my teens.

Doesn't bother me in the slightest, in fact it helps my mood which is a positive.

Even kids as young as 5 masterbates as in touching their genitals.

Even animals does it. It's perfectly natural.

What's unnatural is not doing it or a compulsive behaviour as in doing it 10x a day - that is a disorder and needs treatment.
 

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If you aint getting ***** you definatley should not be fapping.

Ever wonder why "wanker" and "jerk off" are insults?

It just lets dudes be lazy.

Only time fapping is acceptable is if in a relationship and your gf is away or you are away and sex isn't an option.
I think all this fapping business, and floods of pornography in the suburbs, is the elephant in the room. Men have 'normalized' it... and yet I'd say this is what contributes to a large part of the problems we have in life... including women.

It's a simple test. Stop playing with yourself for a few weeks. If you can't do it... then the reality is you are like that baby screaming for its sugar-coated dummy. :D
 

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I think all this fapping business, and floods of pornography in the suburbs, is the elephant in the room. Men have 'normalized' it... and yet I'd say this is what contributes to a large part of the problems we have in life... including women.

It's a simple test. Stop playing with yourself for a few weeks. If you can't do it... then the reality is you are like that baby screaming for its sugar-coated dummy. :D
R u saying that u do not masterbate?
 

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Hello Dons. Question. So Suave is it even possible to maintain a rock hard frame in No Fap while mentally masturbating daily about women and svcking yourself off online in virtual locker room dink measuring contests? I dont understand.
How does one auto-fellate themselves in braggadocious posts yet partake in no fap simultaneously? It's like saying you aren't going to pull your pud to women but look in the mirror and rub several out to yourself online instead disguised as improvement. Wtf?

why there are so many haters? r they women or wut

nofap is no SS thing, its widely known

someone holds a grudge against SS
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think all this fapping business, and floods of pornography in the suburbs, is the elephant in the room. Men have 'normalized' it... and yet I'd say this is what contributes to a large part of the problems we have in life... including women.

It's a simple test. Stop playing with yourself for a few weeks. If you can't do it... then the reality is you are like that baby screaming for its sugar-coated dummy. :D
Yup.

Porn used to be seen as some seedy **** that dudes dressed up like **** tracey would go into some dingy adult video store and get a vhs of some pretty tame ****.

Nowadays the **** is mainstream and you go to any of those sites and you are never too far away from some truly ****ed up ****.

Theres a ton of pushback when you bring up how damaging porn is but thats simply from dudes who just dont wanna stop for whatever reason
 

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This is interesting, let's list it down. Those that masterbates regularly in the morning and think it's normal plus natural;

1. Spaz
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5.

Versus those that doesn't masterbate and thinks it's abnormal as in some psychological defect due to pornography.

1. Christopher Columbus
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3.
4.
5.

On a side note, before anyone starts to wonder out loud, I started masterbating even before I knew how to use a computer, fvck I don't think there was even Google back then.
 

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So enlighten me here.....I have beat my meat proudly since I found that first Playboy magazine laying under the bridge when I was 11yrs old. I've never been addicted. I have seen no harmful effects. Does it cause hemorrhoids? :D I always blamed that on lifting weights and not eating enough vegetables like mom told me to do.

So what exactly is the damage it has caused me? I enjoy nice looking female bodies too much? I had that problem at 6yo the first time I saw Daisy Duke and knew she was hot.
 

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Guys, you're all clearly being trolled. This is that NaughtyNinja lad (whom I'm not personally familiar with).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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