"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No fap= less or more testosterone

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I need your guys opinions on this. I just want to know from a purely chemical perspective which is going to read to more T productions.

So I have pretty much cut porn over the last 2 month, I have slipped up about 3 times.

However, I still do fap off and on, I will get mixed reactions, if it is early in the morning I will be sluggish for most of the day.
If it's after a hard workout or yoga sesh, I pretty much have no choice, I'm just raging. Usually I'll still be energetic after, my body will want to go for another round, if I do that I'll get sluggish, if I dont I feel good.
Before bed is most common of course, and I find the next morning to be very reinvigorated.

If I go 1-2 days without I can also find myself to be sluggish. If I go 5-7 days however I feel on top of the world

So I'm already aware of the conscious affects it has on the desire of women and all that, which I feel like cutting porn has greatly balanced. So now I just need to know from a chemical standpoint what is better for your body and t production.

I've tried to read up but still haven't gotten alot of answers. So would like some other bro scientist's input.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My experience says it's great for a week or two. Then I get low. Not scientific, but I don't see long term success with it.
 

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Yeh I mean to me it seems like, laying around everyday watching porn, your brain just goes haywire, it has to do less work, which = less need for excessive t, less desire to meet actual women.

When you're working out and eating a testosterone boosting diet (like myself) rubbing one out (w/o porn screwing up chemistry) tells your body, "this guy needs more, he's running us all around)

I hear that guys that take testosterone supplements have to 'release' 4 times a day at minimum.
I am starting to really believe it is the circumstance of what else you're doing to your body
 

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Too much internet porn and sedentary lifestyle is obviously a bad thing, fap in excess is not good either. I think if you can regulate it and control when you do it it is a healthy thing. I certainly feel on top of the world doing no fap for a few weeks or months, however you are denying your body something. When you are with a women, you blow too quick and that is the biggest draw back of no fap, I like to go once a week, if I need more I will and balance it out with periods of no fap.
 

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There's some research on that, IIRC it peaks after a week then you either need to clear pipe or it gets bad.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cannot get my head around why anyone would want to quit porn. It's awesome.

You'll see no significant body changes from not jacking off.

Your only issue is if you're sat at home all day on porn rather than doing anything. If that's the case, it's because you're a loser though - not because of porn.
 

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Quoting from Colossus's second link:

These data demonstrate that acute abstinence does not change the neuroendocrine response to orgasm but does produce elevated levels of testosterone in males.
That's it bros
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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