"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No fap= less or more testosterone

Apfelstrudel

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I need your guys opinions on this. I just want to know from a purely chemical perspective which is going to read to more T productions.

So I have pretty much cut porn over the last 2 month, I have slipped up about 3 times.

However, I still do fap off and on, I will get mixed reactions, if it is early in the morning I will be sluggish for most of the day.
If it's after a hard workout or yoga sesh, I pretty much have no choice, I'm just raging. Usually I'll still be energetic after, my body will want to go for another round, if I do that I'll get sluggish, if I dont I feel good.
Before bed is most common of course, and I find the next morning to be very reinvigorated.

If I go 1-2 days without I can also find myself to be sluggish. If I go 5-7 days however I feel on top of the world

So I'm already aware of the conscious affects it has on the desire of women and all that, which I feel like cutting porn has greatly balanced. So now I just need to know from a chemical standpoint what is better for your body and t production.

I've tried to read up but still haven't gotten alot of answers. So would like some other bro scientist's input.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My experience says it's great for a week or two. Then I get low. Not scientific, but I don't see long term success with it.
 

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Yeh I mean to me it seems like, laying around everyday watching porn, your brain just goes haywire, it has to do less work, which = less need for excessive t, less desire to meet actual women.

When you're working out and eating a testosterone boosting diet (like myself) rubbing one out (w/o porn screwing up chemistry) tells your body, "this guy needs more, he's running us all around)

I hear that guys that take testosterone supplements have to 'release' 4 times a day at minimum.
I am starting to really believe it is the circumstance of what else you're doing to your body
 

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Too much internet porn and sedentary lifestyle is obviously a bad thing, fap in excess is not good either. I think if you can regulate it and control when you do it it is a healthy thing. I certainly feel on top of the world doing no fap for a few weeks or months, however you are denying your body something. When you are with a women, you blow too quick and that is the biggest draw back of no fap, I like to go once a week, if I need more I will and balance it out with periods of no fap.
 

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There's some research on that, IIRC it peaks after a week then you either need to clear pipe or it gets bad.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cannot get my head around why anyone would want to quit porn. It's awesome.

You'll see no significant body changes from not jacking off.

Your only issue is if you're sat at home all day on porn rather than doing anything. If that's the case, it's because you're a loser though - not because of porn.
 

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Quoting from Colossus's second link:

These data demonstrate that acute abstinence does not change the neuroendocrine response to orgasm but does produce elevated levels of testosterone in males.
That's it bros
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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