"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No Fap Challenge Progress

LIKEaBAWZ

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Funny to see this thread , i haven't fapped for about a week since i was on a trip with friends .
Last days i really noticed that i'm more energetic , even when i only slept like 5 hours .
Also had more confidence , and i had an easier time talking to strangers .

I'm gonna see how long i can last without going insane :p .
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JohnChops

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yeah im starting this, this will be my second day. Gotta keep yourself busy. Yeah honestly women smell testosterone. And when you keep your test. levels high they will rip those pants off and call it a night. My friend is a prime example of this. He never masterbaits and he has women going insane over him so that thread on body building dot come is not a lie, it most likley is happening to this individual.
 

whosthat

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guys not fapping is going to make your more aggresive , its all in ur head
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

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JohnChops said:
yeah im starting this, this will be my second day. Gotta keep yourself busy. Yeah honestly women smell testosterone. And when you keep your test. levels high they will rip those pants off and call it a night. My friend is a prime example of this. He never masterbaits and he has women going insane over him so that thread on body building dot come is not a lie, it most likley is happening to this individual.
Really? That's the type of results I like to hear.
I'm super excited to hear everyones progress

I dont see why they would remove this thread, it's related to attracting woman, bettering ourselves, and its a community test.

whosthat said:
guys not fapping is going to make your more aggresive , its all in ur head
Thats what I was thinking at first. But scientifically they proved that after day 7 your testosterine goes up to 151% its regular level Afterwards decreasing but not as low as your fap life.

Also, think about it, what IS The longest you've gone without a fap?
I cant think of a time I've gone longer than 2 weeks, to not call that an addiction is just being ignorant to the facts.
 

Eternal_water

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whosthat said:
guys not fapping is going to make your more aggresive , its all in ur head
Scienctific experiments and personal experience proves otherwise but even If that were true and its all in your mind.

Same result, - posative mindset.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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seethehoop

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I've been doing this on and off for a while. The longest I went was 2 weeks then got blue balls, they ache like nowt else. Ya have to release every so often. Its unhealthy to go so long. What I've started to do now is try and control the end result by exercising the muscle. I can now pretty much run the race without spilling a drop. Tantric may be the way forward, just ask sting.
 

SeymourCake

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I'm two months in.
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

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Day 3.
Had the day off and was in my apartment all day.
DRIVING MYSELF CRAZY

Also, girl I met on the subway starts sweet texting me
and on top of that, two girls I banged back home are planning to bus here for next month before Uni and want to stay at my house 'at least one night'

I made a self pact that I want to go 30 days without any sort of fap/sex/***

On the bright side
My **** is always half-chub
and being extremely horny I go on POF/OKcupid and actually talked up a bunch of girls (got 3 numbers) in one day.
Gives me good incentive, if i'm going to get any pleasure its not going to be from my hand
 

Eternal_water

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I don't think the idea is to cut actual sex out, just masterbation.

This is for guys who aren't getting any.

Cutting sex out is just counter productive.
 

BigSmooth

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Yeah don't cut out sex. The point is to cut off masturbation, and therefore porn.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Going to try this for a while. Day 3 now. Damn difficult. Haven't noticed any change in how i feel yet.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Closer To The Heart

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I've found that since I switched my fitness routine to early in the day, one of the first things I do after breakfast, I have no real urge to masturbate for the rest of the day. I assume it's cause I don't have the excess energy in me but I won't theorize on it. Just try moving it if your exercise is later in the evening/after the rest of your daily stuff, might help out.
 

cablecow15

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I cant remember the last time i touched myself , now when i wanan nut ill just browse my phone. but i dont feel any diffrent , because im still nutting ... lol

Im considering just stopping all this crap i have going on with mediocre girls and seeing what happens when I just let my boys accumulate.
 

cablecow15

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BigSmooth said:
Yeah don't cut out sex. The point is to cut off masturbation, and therefore porn.
after my own experiences I view nutting as nutting... now that i get it regular , i dont feel really any better... if anything im less likely to go out and get new girls , because i have open mouths and legs waiting for me , but the thing is , there really not the best I can do , there maybe average , so im going to join this cause , no spanking it , or no sex , unless i view the girl a a 6.5 or higher
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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