"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No FAP Challenge day 7

PianoGuy33

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Damn I'm really ****ing horny. I've been sitting in my apartment all day studying for midterms, by myself, which makes me even more horny. ****, have to exercise patience. Anyone else no FAP Challening?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Made a new year's resolution to stop fapping.

I jacked off at around 1pm on January 1
 

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sageproduct said:
Made a new year's resolution to stop fapping.

I jacked off at around 1pm on January 1

me too man.. we all been there..

last night i was watching some live cams and realized that it is **** and getting me no where. so i decided to go no fap no porn.

i'm pretty sure i will fail at the no fap. but last year i went like a month without porn and i felt great. i really have to get back on track.
 

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LOL @ all these No Fap threads. I did it once a long time ago. I told my friend I was going to copy the film 40 days and 40 nights. I didn't "fap" for 41 days/nights.
 

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Day 22, so glad I found this thread, how I haven't caved in the last few days I will never know. Edging is what makes it really difficult. Finding the stories of other guys doing this is a great source of strength, heavy gym sessions help and vigorous activity like surfing take your mind off it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You're all mugging yourself off. If you have an erectile problem it's porn only that you need to avoid.

Ah why waste my time, see you in a few months when you realise what a f*!king idiotic and un-natural endeavour this is. It's like watching people brainwashed into a cult.
 

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Depends on your motivation Scott, if you have problems with it then yes, you may want to stop touching it for a bit.

If you have bought into some kind of mental utopia, you should probably stay away from the Internet.
 

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Bein off porn and fapping for almost 7 months. You guys need to discipline yourselves hard.
 
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