"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

No Eye Contact

W

Water_Man

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2003
Messages
66
Reaction score
0
Location
Dallas Texas
I see this woman several times a week. She will not look at me. Like when I go in to her place she is looking and standing straight ahead and I come up from her side and she just reaches out with my container. She will not even turn towards me. Then when I am paying she will not look at me even when she is giving me change. However when I am filling up the container I see her out of the corner of my eye looking at me. I like pay attention to her and she is telling me how much something was and it was a small fortune and I made a face because I did not think she was looking but I heard her giggle I look up and she was not looking at me so I guess she is looking when I am not.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

T

tmpgstx

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 5, 2005
Messages
1,331
Reaction score
7
Location
Somewherez in USofA
She likes you. It's her shy way, but is afraid you may reject her. Be friendly and get her talking. You won't be able to shut her up.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top