I get decent women all the time, but I have to wonder about all the women I pass on campus. I have confidence, body, and game, but I never really find the motivation to get women passing by. All it does is make me awkward and face rejection most of the time, which doesn't both me, but if 90% of the time you get a bad answer--I don't bother and I wait until my comfort zone at parties, events, work, and clubs.
Now I'm at a point where I make excuses like, "I don't have time for her." "I'm too far away." "She's not my type."
But that's the thing maybe--I can't get into other types. I've dated all races and personalities, but unless I know for a FACT I'm a better catch than the chick, I can't really pull them from a market... or walking by on campus...
I've been through the boot camp a few times. I've been through all types of exercises. Is my only solution to getting what I want to miraculously find the time to go from woman to woman, trying to get rejected until I my communication with these women is natural to me?
Maybe some men are not meant to have the women they want until they reach a comfortable point in their lives? I have so much going on with school, hobbies, and maintaining my social scene that this sounds like such a ridiculous answer to a man that isn't an introverted, undersexed male. I remember the DJ Bible said that real men aren't found; they are climbing mountains, swimming across rivers. Maybe college isn't the place to be looking for women with integrity (not the easy women that sleep with you for muscles, alcohol, or a frat name behind you), considering these females are just as focused on life as you and perhaps they're not at the time of their lives to be putting time into romancing their counterparts.
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Now I'm at a point where I make excuses like, "I don't have time for her." "I'm too far away." "She's not my type."
But that's the thing maybe--I can't get into other types. I've dated all races and personalities, but unless I know for a FACT I'm a better catch than the chick, I can't really pull them from a market... or walking by on campus...
I've been through the boot camp a few times. I've been through all types of exercises. Is my only solution to getting what I want to miraculously find the time to go from woman to woman, trying to get rejected until I my communication with these women is natural to me?
Maybe some men are not meant to have the women they want until they reach a comfortable point in their lives? I have so much going on with school, hobbies, and maintaining my social scene that this sounds like such a ridiculous answer to a man that isn't an introverted, undersexed male. I remember the DJ Bible said that real men aren't found; they are climbing mountains, swimming across rivers. Maybe college isn't the place to be looking for women with integrity (not the easy women that sleep with you for muscles, alcohol, or a frat name behind you), considering these females are just as focused on life as you and perhaps they're not at the time of their lives to be putting time into romancing their counterparts.
:crazy: