"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No Excuses Anymore.

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NO MORE EXCUSES!!!
I made a schedule and I will force myself to follow it starting today. I will try to update it weekly. I have to work hard in order to get the best girls out there. Schedule will be also change eventually if needed. Let me know what do you think about it?


Routines after work (6PM ish):
Bedtime @10:30PM – Get up @7AM. Sleep for a minimum of 7.5h

Mon: Eat dinner @5 in the office, Sarging from 6:45PM till 9PM. Get home at 9:15PM
Tue: Eat dinner @5 in the office, Sarging from 6:45PM till 9PM. Get home at 9:15PM
Wed: Eat dinner @5 in the office, Grocery shopping at 6:15PM, Sarge from 7PM till 9PM. Get home at 9:55PM
Thu: Get home @6:45PM, go to the Gym till 10PM
Fri: Eat dinner @5 in the office, Sarging from 6:45PM till 8PM or 9PM or play snooker for 1h after sarging, Grocery shopping at 10:30PM.
Sat: Wake up @8AM, Breakfast, Housework (sweep, vacuum, washroom cleaning, laundry). Regular chores. Maybe eat out in the evening.
Sun: Wake up @8AM, Breakfast, Cook for three days meals (Sun-Tue). Eat lunch at 12PM, Sarge at 2PM
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No sarging at the weekend when you'll probably have the most energy compared to after work?
 

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I would recommend three things

1] workout at least 3 times a week - going to the gym once per week is nonsense

2] update everyday before bed - i tried once a week but when I switched to every day there was profound effects

3] read 30 minutes each day


Gotsta make sure your adding to your own personal repertoire son
 

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Another thing why are you working out for 4 hours on Thursday? 1 hour workouts are more effective...

To much working out at once can be very deleterious and in fact cause negative outcomes
 

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thanks for the feedback. I will update the schedule when I have time. Yesterday I sarge a little. Approached one set and #close. got home at 8:45pm and cooked for 1h for 3 days. so today I wont need to cook. I won't sarge today because I have a dentist app.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Looks like it's not that easy to sarge and keep up with my schedule. LOL
Will try again tomorrow.!
 

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my advice is first focus on your own personal things before sarging...Like gym personal hobbies etc. sarge at weekends maybe
 

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narcissist said:
Another thing why are you working out for 4 hours on Thursday? 1 hour workouts are more effective...

To much working out at once can be very deleterious and in fact cause negative outcomes
Exactley.

You wanna lose fat or gain mass (muscles)?

Work out at least 3 times a week, 4-5 time is most effective.

Get a training schedule, if you wanna lose fat and gain muscles, train 2 muscle parts a day like back and shoulders or chest and triceps and do interval cardio true your sets. Train for 1 hour - 1.5 hours.

If you wanna gain muscles only train for 1 hour 2 muscle parts without much cardio and eat every 2 hours proteins and 2 times a day carbs. Add fruits to your diet also.

Goodluck, any questions pm me I workout for 3years know and got the best results :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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