"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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I started hitting the gym hard about a month ago. Progress was going well. I could definately see quick results, but lately I have absolutely no energy. I don't feel like I've been getting a good workout at all and it's frustrating to the point where I took a break.

Now, I feel all flabby and unmotivated. Is there a good supplement I could take before I go to work out that would give me a boost of energy so I could actually finish a workout?

Some said it could be my diet which I believe to be true. I cut down on bad carbs and loaded up on vegetables, but totally forgot that I needed to add beans to the meals so I could get my calories. I was basically doing vegetables and chicken and not a whole lot of it.

I've heard of Ripped Fuel, amongst other things. What are your ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kdnash82 said:
I started hitting the gym hard about a month ago. Progress was going well. I could definately see quick results, but lately I have absolutely no energy. I don't feel like I've been getting a good workout at all and it's frustrating to the point where I took a break.

Now, I feel all flabby and unmotivated. Is there a good supplement I could take before I go to work out that would give me a boost of energy so I could actually finish a workout?

Some said it could be my diet which I believe to be true. I cut down on bad carbs and loaded up on vegetables, but totally forgot that I needed to add beans to the meals so I could get my calories. I was basically doing vegetables and chicken and not a whole lot of it.

I've heard of Ripped Fuel, amongst other things. What are your ideas?
Fix your diet before thinking about supplements: try milk.

Cut down the weight slightly on the exercises, and start building the weight again.
 

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Ive been taking NO Xplode, and it is great. Gives me tons of energy, and makes exercise feel so much easier that i have to force myself to stop.
 

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Are you going to failure or near failure on every set? My gains got much better when i stopped doing that and only got close to failure on the last set. If my goal is 8 reps in a set my sets look like this now after someone brought it to my attention:

185x8, 185x8, 185x9. (purposely stopping at 8 on the first two sets even if i can do more)
Then next week might be: 190x8, 190x8, 190x7

Before the 185 set would look like this (with more weight because above i'm only really trying to get 8+ reps on the last set, whereas here i was trying to get 8 full out on the first set..and 2nd... and 3rd)

195x8, 195x5, 195x3 (as many as i could every set)

I was neurally burned out all the time and the increases were slow, if any. Now i add weight and/or reps every time with the same diet.


I really have no idea if it's optimal, but 2-3 sets full out wasn't working for me much at all. Even taking a week off, I'd quickly hit a wall again because I'd deplete my nervous system all over again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KnockoutJM said:
Ive been taking NO Xplode, and it is great. Gives me tons of energy, and makes exercise feel so much easier that i have to force myself to stop.
I've taken No Xplode before, and you're absolutely right. I had amazing energy. I was literally a beast, but I didn't see any gains. Then again, I had already been on a different type of creatine and probably needed to cycle off before I started up with No Xplode.

Eitherway, I'll pick up a tub today and go at it again tomorrow to see what happens. Thanks.
 
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