"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No Date for Prom, Should I go?

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Basically I got rejected by the girl i wanted to take.


Should I go to prom alone atleast? or just go to the after party?

There might be the option of going to prom HIGH AS FUCCK.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't go high, it'll throw off your game at prom. Even though you don't have a date, might as well get with some other girls who are alone or just have fun with your friends.
 
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What's the point of getting high? Are you such a loser when you are sober that you don't even want to hang out with yourself unless you are high?
 
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go with another girl as friends, at least, or go with a group of friends. I wouldn't go stag; prom is a very couples oriented event and it would not be good if you went alone, and definitely DO NOT go there high. Trust me, I've gone to school dances high; you won't enjoy yourself and you'll just get talked about. No girl is going to want that guy who went to his prom alone and stoned out of his mind.

DO go to the after party though
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Let me rephrase the question,

Should I go to prom alone?
 
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gotballz said:
Let me rephrase the question,

Should I go to prom alone?
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1 You can go to prom sober and game girls there

2 You can pick up a girl and ask her to come with you (day mall approach)

Do not lose the opportunity to go to your prom just because you don't have a date.

oh and also getting blazed and going to prom is ****ing crazy....i predict pranoya and ZERO game.
 
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Guys relax, i do MMA n I dnt even smoke that much. My friend recommened it, so thats y i was askin
 
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gotballz said:
Guys relax, i do MMA n I dnt even smoke that much. My friend recommened it, so thats y i was askin
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Then your friend is a bigtime loser. You are borderline for considering it.

Why don't you just stay home and put your 'friend' in a rear naked choke?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you can go with a chick that's " just friends ", do that. If you can't, ask yourself this question.

"Do i know how to have fun?" if so, then yes go alone. meet up with your guy friends, whether or not they have dates, and just have fun. Prom isnt that big of a deal anyways
 
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I think its sad how just because the OP contemplated smoking weed that he and his friends are automatically labeled as losers. Amazing how ignorant some people can be...
 
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YogurtSlinger said:
Then your friend is a bigtime loser. You are borderline for considering it.

Why don't you just stay home and put your 'friend' in a rear naked choke?
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Ur an idiot.
 
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BongDuy said:
If you can go with a chick that's " just friends ", do that. If you can't, ask yourself this question.

"Do i know how to have fun?" if so, then yes go alone. meet up with your guy friends, whether or not they have dates, and just have fun. Prom isnt that big of a deal anyways
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I know wat u mean, n its not like i cant bring chicks from outside.

I just dont wanna pay a 100 bucks hehe.

But ur right, if i cant find anyone ill go ther for a gud time at least.
 
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I think its sad how just because the OP contemplated smoking weed that he and his friends are automatically labeled as losers. Amazing how ignorant some people can be...
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Yeah. Reeeal sad.:rolleyes: I think the ignorant thing here is that some people think drug use is cool. You're a real winner.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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YogurtSlinger said:
Yeah. Reeeal sad.:rolleyes: I think the ignorant thing here is that some people think drug use is cool. You're a real winner.
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Lol huh? When did I ever say drug use was "cool"?
 
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guys lets just stick to the OP's problem.
and smoking weed doesnt make you a loser, i know guys who do well and work hard, and they smoke once and a while. what makes you a loser is if you let it take over your life.

Do NOT go to prom high, people can just tell and you'll act different around them, wich usually isnt good when your baked cause they'll think your weird.

Go with some friends at least, you wont look like an antisocial person who has no value.

If you KNOW you have game, and you want to go alone, then go for it, but dont get yourself psyched up expecting to pick someone up at prom, you gotta be sure of yourself. you cant have this goal in your mind of picking someone up, then actually getting there and not doing it. you gotta KNOW your gonna do it, or find a group and have fun with them instead if worst comes to worst.
 
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Guys he's not a loser for thinking about smoking. That's a stretch, I mean I could say the same thing about any of you who get drunk at parties. They could be losers too because they have no game and are just trying to fit into the party. That just shows you don't know how to have fun sober (not saying I don't drink though).

On topic, just don't go blazin. If you want to have a good time and remember things without getting busted by the school for whatever, go naturally and have a good time. Smoke all the **** you want at the after party if you feel like it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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