"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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No counter, but with a good reason?

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im not assuming what youve done ....Im noting these womens ACTIONS
like ive said shes should be blowing your phone up, this is what women do once you put your Dck in them and show them a good time, she should be emotionally invested in you

Because women are JEALOUS Creatures.......they are biologically hard wired to make sure no other woman gets her hands the GOODS

the only other reason is you are texting yourself right out of the next date, if your sitting there texting her for texts on end , kinky texts when shes not ready puts a lot of women off

3-4 texts max leave the convo, rinse and repeat

WHO IS THIS GUY ?? WHY IS HE SO BUSY?? EVERYOTHER GUY TEXTS ME ALL NIGHT
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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im not assuming what youve done ....Im noting these womens ACTIONS
like ive said shes should be blowing your phone up, this is what women do once you put your Dck in them and show them a good time, she should be emotionally invested in you

Because women are JEALOUS Creatures.......they are biologically hard wired to make sure no other woman gets her hands the GOODS

the only other reason is you are texting yourself right out of the next date, if your sitting there texting her for texts on end , kinky texts when shes not ready puts a lot of women off

3-4 texts max leave the convo, rinse and repeat

WHO IS THIS GUY ?? WHY IS HE SO BUSY?? EVERYOTHER GUY TEXTS ME ALL NIGHT
Like I said, her humor is heavily sarcastic. Here’s the entire convo.

Me: Hey Em its visu22. I forgot to mention that my pledge name in college was actually Em.

Her: Wow, how could you forget such an important detail?

Me: I know right? I’ll have to tell you about it over drinks

Her: I can’t handle all of the anticipation

Me: In that case I’ll pick you up tomorrow at 7:30

Her: Lol I have the flu so there’s no way I’m leaving my apartment
 

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Texting too much......

Pedestalizing.......

Too much this, too much that, not enough this, not enough that. Enough already.

Its hard to screw it up with a high interest woman if you are just a fun, outgoing, best version of yourself. Go out on dates and have fun with these high interest women. If you dont have any, go find them through socialization.

You also cant take a low interest woman and turn her around. Backing off her may raise her interest a little as it gets her wondering why you arent chasing like the other dudes, but trust me, you will always have higher interest in her than she does in you. Thats a recipe for disaster.

With the RIGHT women, things are easy. Easy dates, easy conversation, easy escalation. They wont care if you text them the next day or the day after. The guidelines of how to interact with women doesnt change. Just change the women in the scenario to high interest ones and its a cake walk.

Better yourself in the gym, socially, financially......thats how you move up in the class of women you are attracting and have more high interested women in your circle.
 

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Like I said, her humor is heavily sarcastic. Here’s the entire convo.

Me: Hey Em its visu22. I forgot to mention that my pledge name in college was actually Em.

Her: Wow, how could you forget such an important detail?

Me: I know right? I’ll have to tell you about it over drinks

Her: I can’t handle all of the anticipation

Me: In that case I’ll pick you up tomorrow at 7:30

Her: Lol I have the flu so there’s no way I’m leaving my apartment

You should have said "Hey I'm super busy and I have to run but lets continue this convo later over a couple drinks. Lets do tomorrow at 7:30"

If she gave me the "I have the flu" text, I would have hit her with "I hope you feel better. Hit me up when you're feeling up to par and want to continue this over drinks. Gotta go ;) "

Then leave it. She either reaches out or she doesnt. When she reaches out I am going right back to the meeting for drinks within the first few messages because I AM TOO BUSY to give a chick texting attention/validation during my busy life. Especially one that I am not fvcking.

Thats it. She takes it or leaves it.
 

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what part of this dont you understand OP, women who are interested in you blow up your phone

you are her booty call thats basically it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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