No contact!

[Aesthetix29]

Okay so if you're girlfriend breaks up with you via text message is NO CONTACT the way to go?

 

[badboyjmm]

Okay so if you're girlfriend breaks up with you via text message is NO CONTACT the way to go?

She didn't even had the courtesy to at least call you ? That's straight disrespect.

You should definitely go no contact, block her from social media and focus on other girls.

She will probably try to contact you by text, email, call. It will be tempting, but yeah, don't respond. The exception would be if you see her in public, you say hi and you proceed with whatever you were doing\going.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Well got the text on Monday and not heard anythings as of yet... It is disrespectful as I would never break up with someone by text unless we had just been on a few dates. A few hours after the text she changed her relationship status on Facebook, although we are still friends on there I havnt blocked her. I don't want to look like I'm butthurt. Do you actually think she'll contact me again at some point? She didn't even give me any closure as too why? That's the worst ... I'm assuming she's with someone else or maybe an ex stepped up or maybe she cheated on me and did it by text out of a guilty conscience.... Who knows? The stupid thing is that things were going good and at first we took things slow like not meeting her 4 year old son as it wouldn't be fair on him... But eventually she introduced me then within a month she finished it. Seriously what's all that about?

 

[badboyjmm]

Block her of Facebook so that way you can move on. There's nothing worse than having a moment of weakness and next thing you know you are looking at her pictures, then looking at guys she will take pictures with, asking yourself what happen. Then you will start being pissed off because she will definitely try to get a reaction from you.

(I broke up with my ex and within a month she had another dude, posting pictures about how she's in love and all of this good stuff, valentine's day and all. It make her look very weak in my eyes because ultimately it was for show, since she never did those things with me and I didn't care at all)

Maybe she will try to contact you if whatever she was trying was not working.

So who cares about the reason ? She DUMPED YOU OVER TEXT MESSAGE ! Please move on.

 

[GS750]

Well got the text on Monday and not heard anythings as of yet... Because she's likely with someone else. And she might feel bad or awkward having contact with you It is disrespectful as I would never break up with someone by text unless we had just been on a few dates. Girls don't like confrontation. If she can avoid awkwardness or confrontation she will dump you by text. A few hours after the text she changed her relationship status on Facebook, although we are still friends on there I havnt blocked her. You should block her. And change your FB settings to private. I don't want to look like I'm butthurt. Who cares how you look? Do you think she cares how she looks to you? No. She doesn'tDo you actually think she'll contact me again at some point? Probably, when she needs some attention/validation or things aren't working out with the new guyShe didn't even give me any closure as too why?Because she's self centered and only cares about herself That's the worst ... I'm assuming she's with someone else or maybe an ex stepped up or maybe she cheated on me and did it by text out of a guilty conscience.... Who knows? Probably. If she's the branch swinging type she wouldn't let go of one guy unless she had another lined upThe stupid thing is that things were going good and at first we took things slow like not meeting her 4 year old son as it wouldn't be fair on him... But eventually she introduced me then within a month she finished it. Dumped by a single mother? She did you a favor in the long runSeriously what's all that about?

This woman dumped you via text. You should BLOCK her on all platforms and if she attempts to contact you in the future, which she likely will, you shouldn't even give her the time of day. Resist the urge to look at her FB page. It only leads to more checking and will piss you off more and more as time goes on.

 

[nismo-4]

Delete this b**ch from all platforms and block her! Get a new girl and move on!

Case closed. Exit the courtroom.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Right okay thanks for the solid advice ... Good job really as I was tempted to send this :-

Hey sorry about the late reply. I had to gather my thoughts before I gave you a reply . Naturally I was quite annoyed,as I felt after the last few months, I was worth more than a cheap tx message ?

Listen that's fine with me no hard feelings you have to do what makes you happy , your loss really lol .

Hope everything works out for you in the future I wish you all the best. x

Kinda glad that I didnt!

 

[GS750]

No, no, no. Fvck that sideways. That's waaaaay too nice for someone who didn't have the common decency to call you or see you in person and tell you what was up. Go No Contact. The best article I've read about recent breakups can be seen here: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/10/12/important-ignore-breakup/