"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JdelaSilviera

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Just a "warning" to my fellow sosuavers. Many women are "cool" with no contact because as a rule, most men come back . And most that try no contact, are back at them a couple of months after, hitting on them even harder. Don´t think for a second that this is a guy´s rule.

The funny thing is this, women are cool with a no contact of 2-3 months, till they find a guy who handles 6 months or so. Women coolness most of the times is just apparent. This of course, if you aren´t indifferent to her.

The result of a no contact though, may result in a furious hate and lots of gossiping about you, just be prepared to that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That's the thing. NC should be meant to get away FROM her not to get with her.
 

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I would prefer they hate me and gossip away. Unless your sporting 3 inches of wood you got nothing to worry about.
 

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Its so true man. I made out drunk with a girl a couple of months ago, I was clubbing with her, her friend and one of my budds. Number closed and left since I knew her friend and she came along. I asked to go for a drink she said she was busy and couldnt go that day, tried again a week later and she stood me up.

So I ripped her number and moved on on NC. Two weeks later I see her at the train station, acted all indifferent, she asked me some questions but I acted like I had to run and didn't show any interest like I did on our little adventure months ago and on texts back then. But I was still on NC, didnt have her number anyway, she never texted me.

From that day on until know I hear from people that shes badmouthing me, talks about me with her friends and even tells them I'm sad lmfao. I number closed her friend last week but I'm not contacting her since shes her friend lol. But it's a mess from, she tells everyone that wants to hear it that I chased her and she rejected me and uses that as ego stroke.

you gotta love nc and indefference coz i really really don't give 2 shets about her didn't put any effort in her was looking for a bootycall since we made out and I numberclosed her anyway, wouldn't even f*ck her now no feelings at all 0% and she tells the world that I like her lool
 

JdelaSilviera

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Exactly, for them no contact is a rejection by our part, since women have less initiate then men.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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