No contact works!

[mtlwlu]

so, ive been trying to get with this one girl, (still spinning others) anyways shes at the top of the list, I went a week without any contact, and what happens she phones me asking "whats wrong" "something I did" etc...needless to say she set up a time and date to meet up again.

I know its hard not to send a text or phone, but if you really want a girl, let her chase you! DO IT!

 

[Tiguere]

its called the "push-pull effect"

 

[Igetit!]

so, ive been trying to get with this one girl, (still spinning others) anyways shes at the top of the list,

Alright,question here...

You went a week of no contact on this girl,right?

Why?


What did she do to cause you to start the "no contact"?

I went a week without any contact, and what happens she phones me asking "whats wrong" "something I did" etc...needless to say she set up a time and date to meet up again.

Here you say she set up a date and time to meet up "again".

So I take it you two either already went out before,or there were previous dates and times set up that the dates never happened on.




What did you say when she asked you what was wrong and why you hadn't called her? And what did you say when she suggested you two get together again?


Oh yeah,and how was the dating between you two before the no contact started?

(By the way,this "No-Contact" is what's in my signature. )

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

Alright,question here...

You went a week of no contact on this girl,right?

Why?


What did she do to cause you to start the "no contact"?




Here you say she set up a date and time to meet up "again".

So I take it you two either already went out before,or there were previous dates and times set up that the dates never happened on.




What did you say when she asked you what was wrong and why you hadn't called her? And what did you say when she suggested you two get together again?


Oh yeah,and how was the dating between you two before the no contact started?

(By the way,this "No-Contact" is what's in my signature. )

it worked for him so far hasn't worked for me..so after close to two weeks Id figure id sent here an e-mail since I deleted her number then changed my mind I no longer had acess to her phone..heres the e-mail
........So a little while back I was at spectators..the sports bar..I was kinda drunk when I went to use the bathroom..I was checking out some **** on my phone and I droped the ****ing thing in the urinal..now the toilet was pretty gross..you know how they can be at the bars..so I looked around..and didn't see anyone...so I rolled up my sleeve.....and grabbed my phone..It was so gross..I actually started to get sick thinking about what I just did so I ran to the sink..(gaging) and rinsed off my phone..Long story short the phone was capoot..and I lost all my numbers..anywho I got a new phone and am updating the list and I remembered you saying how your a really big myspace fan and low behold thier arn't but a few nathania's here in buque..so hit me back with your number and let me know how you been..peace.
Chris.....
Not sure if this was a good idea or not..she gave me alot of initial interest..then out of nowhere flaked..so well see

 

[mtlwlu]

The reason why i did the no contact thing, was because she blew me off for some lame excuse, and then I went home for thanksgiving (Canadian) went the whole week without contact, because a) I was mad at her and I refuse to play those games anymore b) see if I could actually do it myself and sure enough she contacts me.

 

[Prodigy746]

Borat is that you...

You could always do what he did grab her and run lol!

 

[horaholic]

it worked for him so far hasn't worked for me..so after close to two weeks Id figure id sent here an e-mail since I deleted her number then changed my mind I no longer had acess to her phone..heres the e-mail
........So a little while back I was at spectators..the sports bar..I was kinda drunk when I went to use the bathroom..I was checking out some **** on my phone and I droped the ****ing thing in the urinal..now the toilet was pretty gross..you know how they can be at the bars..so I looked around..and didn't see anyone...so I rolled up my sleeve.....and grabbed my phone..It was so gross..I actually started to get sick thinking about what I just did so I ran to the sink..(gaging) and rinsed off my phone..Long story short the phone was capoot..and I lost all my numbers..anywho I got a new phone and am updating the list and I remembered you saying how your a really big myspace fan and low behold thier arn't but a few nathania's here in buque..so hit me back with your number and let me know how you been..peace.
Chris.....
Not sure if this was a good idea or not..she gave me alot of initial interest..then out of nowhere flaked..so well see

You sent this to a chick you were trying to nail????? Not the brightest move, man.

Also, why did you change your mind? Theres a reason you deleted her number. You defeated the whole purpose of 'no contact.'

 

[omega05]

it worked for him so far hasn't worked for me..so after close to two weeks Id figure id sent here an e-mail since I deleted her number then changed my mind I no longer had acess to her phone..heres the e-mail
........So a little while back I was at spectators..the sports bar..I was kinda drunk when I went to use the bathroom..I was checking out some **** on my phone and I droped the ****ing thing in the urinal..now the toilet was pretty gross..you know how they can be at the bars..so I looked around..and didn't see anyone...so I rolled up my sleeve.....and grabbed my phone..It was so gross..I actually started to get sick thinking about what I just did so I ran to the sink..(gaging) and rinsed off my phone..Long story short the phone was capoot..and I lost all my numbers..anywho I got a new phone and am updating the list and I remembered you saying how your a really big myspace fan and low behold thier arn't but a few nathania's here in buque..so hit me back with your number and let me know how you been..peace.
Chris.....
Not sure if this was a good idea or not..she gave me alot of initial interest..then out of nowhere flaked..so well see

why would you send all this to her?

 

[amoka]

it worked for him so far hasn't worked for me..so after close to two weeks Id figure id sent here an e-mail since I deleted her number then changed my mind I no longer had acess to her phone..heres the e-mail
........So a little while back I was at spectators..the sports bar..I was kinda drunk when I went to use the bathroom..I was checking out some **** on my phone and I droped the ****ing thing in the urinal..now the toilet was pretty gross..you know how they can be at the bars..so I looked around..and didn't see anyone...so I rolled up my sleeve.....and grabbed my phone..It was so gross..I actually started to get sick thinking about what I just did so I ran to the sink..(gaging) and rinsed off my phone..Long story short the phone was capoot..and I lost all my numbers..anywho I got a new phone and am updating the list and I remembered you saying how your a really big myspace fan and low behold thier arn't but a few nathania's here in buque..so hit me back with your number and let me know how you been..peace.
Chris.....
Not sure if this was a good idea or not..she gave me alot of initial interest..then out of nowhere flaked..so well see

This is a definite NO NO to send a girl you're trying to get with. If you already had contact with her before and you can estimate the day and time you last called her or her called you, you can always check your phone bill and the number will be there.:woo: On the other hand, you can always call those numbers on the bill and it a name shows up, you'd know it is not her.

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

You sent this to a chick you were trying to nail????? Not the brightest move, man.

Also, why did you change your mind? Theres a reason you deleted her number. You defeated the whole purpose of 'no contact.'

I actually deleted her number cause i was a little ticked she blew me off..not really thinking I guess..Guess I could have just checked my phone bill like mentioned above...To be honest I thought the story was funny..you telling me you never droped anything in the pisser before? Besides if she doesn't think thats funny then I don't want anything to do with her..Everyone else I talked to thought it was hillarious..let me ask you if you laughed when you read it..or maybe you cringed right?..it made you think..at least enough to post a comment on it..
I have been told latley by friends though that not only am I really cheap (like asking girls out to Mcdonalds...or taking them on date, stopping for gas and buying her a snickers bar..before we go to the hang out and then take her out to eat so she only wants to eat an appatizer)..but that I don't have much tact I'm not smooth by any means..and I come off in ways that I don't intend..but I'm doing my best..being myself..doing what I think is right and am compfortable with my actions..I'm confident in my decesions..I like to get opinions but in the end I'm not sure if what I'm told or what I read is the right thing to do..so in the end I make my own decesions and hope for the best..some chicks eat it up..some don't..

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

why would you send all this to her?

the reason I sent it to her was to re-iniciate contact with her..since I didn't have her phone number anymore their were only two options go to her house unannounced or hit her up on myspace..(she mentioned she was a big fan of myspace) so I figured instead of saying I deleted her number and changed my mind. I conjoured up this story..something a littl graphic, but something I thought Was really funny...but I needed filler so instead of just asking for her to call or give me her number I wrote the story...

 

[omega05]

the reason I sent it to her was to re-iniciate contact with her..since I didn't have her phone number anymore their were only two options go to her house unannounced or hit her up on myspace..(she mentioned she was a big fan of myspace) so I figured instead of saying I deleted her number and changed my mind. I conjoured up this story..something a littl graphic, but something I thought Was really funny...but I needed filler so instead of just asking for her to call or give me her number I wrote the story...

the graphic part was unnecessary though