"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No Contact & Validation question

Brassneck

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I’ve seen it said here that a woman may return after a period of no contact only to get more validation from you.

What’s the best tactic for showing interest without giving to much validation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Billtx49

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On her initial contact be positive and receptive to answering her questions, but don’t expand the convo with your answers or statements to the point of being completely open ended until she’s made her positive intentions known to you, then apply the above @Hank Moody game plan…
 

Brassneck

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What if I’m trying to have her as a side piece so my place is a no go!
 
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