A Position on No Contact
Here is the beautiful thing about this "no contact" philosophy. It isn't about no contact at all. In fact, it has nothing to do with contacting someone. I have a few principles that I adhere to with everyone, not just women, and I consider it to be SOCIAL BOUNDARIES, rather than not contacting.
1) I don't contact people period, unless they are in my inner circle of close people. I believe that when I meet a woman, I may approach her, tease her, see if I LIKE HER. Bottom line, I don't really care because most girls aren't really worth my time anyways. In the end we will all learn that. All the fantasies that we have and ideal circumstances are just that, fantasies. Women don't love us, they will never love us, they will love what we can do for them, to them and how we love them. So back to the post. No contact? Of course you shouldn't contact. I don't contact ever. I make her invest heavily into me or I just don't even think about it. Even my fvck buddies are the ones contacting me when they want to ****, otherwise I invest nothing. I don't contact people and set the frame that I am pursuing or chasing after them. Even the hottest girl in the world. If she isn't going to chase me then we just aren't happening. I find girls that invest because then I make them bring my food just so I will fvck them.
2) I do this because of what I call SOCIAL BOUNDARIES. I have two real world examples for you guys. My ex-girlfriend or so called ex-girlfriend. She broke my trust. Now I will never respond to her again, possibly only to tell her that she had her chance. This is "no contact" but it is really saying YOU BROKE MY SOCIAL BOUNDARY, now I would never trust you again to not do so in the future. I don't give people second chances to break my trust. Once you do it, you are DONE FOREVER. As much as that hurts, I just don't accept that behavior. It isn't because I am trying some technique where I will not contact her and she comes running back. Its because you broke my trust, and so now you are dead to me.
Another example. A girl in one of my classes. I got her number, hung out with her. I geniunely liked her, she was cool, laid back, we had a lot in common. I invited her to come running with me and hang out and she said yes. I call her up and she just doesn't answer. Doesn't text me back, Doesn't call me back. Now many guys on here will say that sounds like a **** test. You should just not make a big deal out of this. But see, they aren't realizing the underlying personality flaw IN THIS PERSON. She should be nexted for this. Why? Because it is BAD CHARACTER. You don't blow people off like that. You send them a text and give them a legitimate reason. Hey I am too tired. Hey I am too uninterested. Hey let's just be friends. Whatever the reason was, she just ignored me. That was absolutely unacceptable so now I don't even make eye contact with her anymore. If she came running back, it wouldn't really matter to me because she ALREADY DISPLAYED that she plays games and is immature.
So the point here is, set your boundaries within yourself. Stop acting and doing things because you think you are going to get some result from a girl and start screening her HEAVILY. No contact to me is actually pretty silly. The whole idea of it is contradictory.
A girl does something unacceptable so you don't "contact" her in order to make her come back and chase you. But the point is. SHE DID SOMETHING UNACCEPTABLE. So next her ass.
