"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No contact situation?

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imservin22

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Hey I met this girl who works at my lawyers office, she's a few years younger. We went out to lunch first then got some food with her and her friend and kissed a little at the end. This girl messes with a couple guys, but I was cool just to hook up which she was down with. Havn't slept with her yet, but she was supposed to come over this past weekend but didn't cause she got a denial letter from grad school that day and was upset. She said she didn't want to talk about and wanted to be alone. If this is a strike it's her second. I tried texting her the next day to see if she was cool no reply. She I give her the no contact treatment. I would enjoy getting this girl back into hook up mode.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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vatoloco

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imservin22 said:
Hey I met this girl who works at my lawyers office,
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If things go south, would you wanna switch lawyers? ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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imservin22 said:
she just texted me should i hold out some more or acknowledge her
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HOW THE HELL DO WE KNOW. depends what she texted. pffffffff talk about impossible to give any advice on.
 
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