"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey fellow djs, just after different views on the situation I'm in. Long story short, I've been gaming this chick for a couple months. We work together but don't work together often so mainly been gaming her through texting. (we can't meet, I have a gf, she has a bf). It's a complicated situation. Anyway, one drink night out couple of days ago I tell her I like her. Stupid I know. So she knows I like her and I'm certain she likes me. I'm not friend zoned anyway & we flirt a lot. So I figure as she knows I like her I'll try and get it out of her that she likes me :L. She keeps teasing me about me liking her! Probably another bad move but whatever haha! After a long time of texting, I still get nowhere, she denies it etc. So not really caring anymore (don't want to keep texting this chick if it's going nowhere), I go no contact and basically tell her I'm teasing myself that's why. She gets annoyed, says I don't understand the situation & I'm hurting her by not talking to her & all this other ****. She says she won't tell me how she feels because I told my friends something she said before so she thinks I tell him everything. Should I stay no contact? I think she's into me but it's abit more complicated than that :L

Any viewpoints on this? Cheers guys
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just stop the texting and don't give her too much attention, talk to her when you need to and that's it.

i am doing this as well and i got over "her" very quickly... in no time she will see you gone and she will wonder what happened. once she doing that continue and don't look back.
 
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