"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No contact or not?

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acerazor1

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Hey fellow djs, just after different views on the situation I'm in. Long story short, I've been gaming this chick for a couple months. We work together but don't work together often so mainly been gaming her through texting. (we can't meet, I have a gf, she has a bf). It's a complicated situation. Anyway, one drink night out couple of days ago I tell her I like her. Stupid I know. So she knows I like her and I'm certain she likes me. I'm not friend zoned anyway & we flirt a lot. So I figure as she knows I like her I'll try and get it out of her that she likes me :L. She keeps teasing me about me liking her! Probably another bad move but whatever haha! After a long time of texting, I still get nowhere, she denies it etc. So not really caring anymore (don't want to keep texting this chick if it's going nowhere), I go no contact and basically tell her I'm teasing myself that's why. She gets annoyed, says I don't understand the situation & I'm hurting her by not talking to her & all this other ****. She says she won't tell me how she feels because I told my friends something she said before so she thinks I tell him everything. Should I stay no contact? I think she's into me but it's abit more complicated than that :L

Any viewpoints on this? Cheers guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just stop the texting and don't give her too much attention, talk to her when you need to and that's it.

i am doing this as well and i got over "her" very quickly... in no time she will see you gone and she will wonder what happened. once she doing that continue and don't look back.
 
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