"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No contact...it works right??

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Pakwah said:
Doin NC right now after a bad bad night at the bar.
I need to know that i am doing the right thing, i got ignored last night so now i not answering any texts from her.
Is there a time limit for this?
When is a good time to start convo again?
But this gives the girls time to stir, and wonder, and go a bit crazy yes??
Please, i want to know what i am doing is the right thing, i don't want to fold
"No Contact" or NC is a tactic to detach from, and permanently remove, a woman who has become a liability from your life.

What you are doing here is "the Silent Treatment" - you are freezing her out in the hope that she will come crawling back -at which time you hope to retrieve your power.

The way to increase personal power is to take some action which directly benefits you, rather than wait until she does.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jophil28 said:
"No Contact" or NC is a tactic to detach from, and permanently remove, a woman who has become a liability from your life.

What you are doing here is "the Silent Treatment" - you are freezing her out in the hope that she will come crawling back -at which time you hope to retrieve your power.

The way to increase personal power is to take some action which directly benefits you, rather than wait until she does.
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