"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No contact...it works right??

jophil28

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Pakwah said:
Doin NC right now after a bad bad night at the bar.
I need to know that i am doing the right thing, i got ignored last night so now i not answering any texts from her.
Is there a time limit for this?
When is a good time to start convo again?
But this gives the girls time to stir, and wonder, and go a bit crazy yes??
Please, i want to know what i am doing is the right thing, i don't want to fold
"No Contact" or NC is a tactic to detach from, and permanently remove, a woman who has become a liability from your life.

What you are doing here is "the Silent Treatment" - you are freezing her out in the hope that she will come crawling back -at which time you hope to retrieve your power.

The way to increase personal power is to take some action which directly benefits you, rather than wait until she does.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jophil28 said:
"No Contact" or NC is a tactic to detach from, and permanently remove, a woman who has become a liability from your life.

What you are doing here is "the Silent Treatment" - you are freezing her out in the hope that she will come crawling back -at which time you hope to retrieve your power.

The way to increase personal power is to take some action which directly benefits you, rather than wait until she does.
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