"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No contact in a triangle: Experience report

Alle_Gory

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cupraikso said:
I firmly adhere to the belief that any girl can cheat given the right circumstances.
Yes but the stronger ones that haven't done this will put up far more resistance than a girl who does this regularly.

cupraikso said:
I'm very receptive to criticism.
Good because we're not trying to make you feel bad. We're trying to get you to see the truth, our version. You decide what you do with that interpretation and how correct it is.

I must say I only considered marriage in my head.
When did you think about this? What did she do or say that made you think this?

I want to see what you clearly see.
What we see is what you see. We only know what you tell us and then we try and understand it differently. You could have left very important details out from the story that you were not even aware of.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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