"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No contact in a triangle: Experience report

Alle_Gory

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cupraikso said:
I firmly adhere to the belief that any girl can cheat given the right circumstances.
Yes but the stronger ones that haven't done this will put up far more resistance than a girl who does this regularly.

cupraikso said:
I'm very receptive to criticism.
Good because we're not trying to make you feel bad. We're trying to get you to see the truth, our version. You decide what you do with that interpretation and how correct it is.

I must say I only considered marriage in my head.
When did you think about this? What did she do or say that made you think this?

I want to see what you clearly see.
What we see is what you see. We only know what you tell us and then we try and understand it differently. You could have left very important details out from the story that you were not even aware of.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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