"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No Contact Implemented !

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Don Juan
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Just to chime in here, keep up the good work.

I broke up with my gf almost two months ago and spent a week debating whether it was all worth it whilst implementing the no contact rule.

Since then she's done a host of stuff to get my attention so it really does work. And to be honest the no contact rule will also help you to forget about her and get your head straight.

Its hard, but eventually you'll realise that you're better off without somebody who dumped you, or made your relationship harder than it was supposed to be.

Some advice, I would give you is to start meeting other women asap, and if you get tempted to call her then call somebody else, friends, family etc.

But do not give in! Good luck! Plenty of people on here would respond to a PM aswell.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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