No Contact for 6 weeks but she 3 months pregnant

[Mr Gyalist]

I have just registered today but have been reading the posts for a good few months. I have read many posts on no contact but never if their ex's are pregnant so I registered, so should I continue no contact if my ex is pregnant?

I found out my now ex girlfriend was pregnant, during our final month of our doomed relationship. We split up and I didn't speak for a week, then we started speaking but not together. I visited her once or twice to discuss the pregnancy and visit the doctors. At every opportunity she would mention we 'are not longer together' as if she was trying to remind me, probably to get reaction. Anyway she would constantly text me insults and say I would not be involved in the child's life, and how she wished I was not the father. I blame this partly on hormones and partly on her messed up head. I said I would see her in court. Then a few days later she would be okay and ask for me to come see her and her son.

Cut a long story short, we had a massive argument,some home truths were said and she put the phone down and said she deleting my number and I would have to fight to see the baby. Straight away I went NC and we have not spoken for 6 weeks. For the first month I was relieved and had span plates. I realise at some point I will have to make contact as this psycho is carry my child, on the other hand I don't want to as I know the ole BS will start again. The baby is due in February, maybe I should wait until then. Guys am I being too cold if I don't contact her until then? Maybe wait for her to contact me?

 

[Greasy Pig]

Whatever happens, insist on a paternity test.

 

[Syrio]

I think when a woman is pregnant with your child you've passed the point of playing games... no contact seems dumb. I'm guessing this is the most major and significant thing that will have ever happened in your life by a long shot (being a father, that is) so you should definitely stay in contact with her and be there for the child.

I also don't think she has any right to tell you that you won't be involved in the kid's life. It's just as much your kid as it is her's.

 

[Big Nuts]

Remember, you consented to fvcking, not being a father. If she is giving you a free pass to disappear, take it. No child support....paper abortion.

Be gone....and fast.