"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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No Contact for 3 weeks now, she updated her photos on Tinder account. Safe to say, NC didn't work?

Mazer

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Hey guys,

Dated a woman for three months, went No contact for 3 weeks because of her being hot one week, then going cold the next and repeat. She hasn't contacted me in the three weeks. She just updated her photos on tinder today. Safe to say she isn't going to be contacting me and the NC rule didn't work?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dash Riprock

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Depends what your goal of NC was. I have had some chicks take 3-4 months to contact me again. Generally, it's the dumper, not dumpee, that's expected to reach out unless the dumpee did something really bad or stupid that warrants an apology.
 
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