"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No Compliments

Kaliffoo

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So a few weeks ago I started talking to this hb9 i met at a bar, we've gone on 2 dates and talk on the phone regularly. Last night she started telling me that I stood out to her because I didnt start paying her compliments when we first met.

She said: "every other guy just starts telling me how pretty I am and all, that turns me off. But you dont really give me compliments."

I told her "I give few compliments, because the few I give, I mean."

Later in the convo I mentioned that I thought she had a "nice ass" she went crazy saying that I had just made her day and that she would be thinking about it all day today.

It's funny, a few months ago I would've been complimenting her left and right...then I would've been home alone thinking about where I went wrong!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ezilonman

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Exactly.

It is unbelievable how far you can get in a month. You can have a gameplan in that time and then it is just a matter of practice.

Knowledge is Power.
 
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