Alright I've had plenty of chances to have a GF. But the thing that always hit me was not having a car so I never ended up asking them out knowing it wouldn't work out. Now I have the problem again but, I actually want a girlfriend because its my last year of highschool. My main target doesn't have a car either. So how did all of you get over this? I can't get my license for a another month so but, I don't wanna pass up my chance with my main because one of the guys might get bold and she would be to nice to say no. So how did you guys get over this and isolate outside of school?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
No car no girlfriend.
- Thread starter youngdon
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
drewsg
Don Juan
1) Do any of your friends have a car?
2) Take public transportation, if you guys are vibing and have a great time, it won't matter
2) Take public transportation, if you guys are vibing and have a great time, it won't matter
kingsam
Master Don Juan
dude, your making excuses
cars only help with logistics IF you actually ask her out, the car is a no issue unitll you actually ask her out
neither does a car = success
you will have to make do with parents/friends/the bus
if she likes you, it wont be a problem with her...... its only a problem if you make it a problem or let it be one
cars only help with logistics IF you actually ask her out, the car is a no issue unitll you actually ask her out
neither does a car = success
you will have to make do with parents/friends/the bus
if she likes you, it wont be a problem with her...... its only a problem if you make it a problem or let it be one
ChalengeGuyFan
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It can be hard to accept and many people will deny when told so, but it's your psyche that is holding you back!
Not a car, not unfashionable clothes, not the area you live in, etc. etc, but your way of thinking!
I will bet with my d!ck, with my eyes, or with my life if you so desire, that loads and loads of kids do get laid while not having a car. Go figure!
Not a car, not unfashionable clothes, not the area you live in, etc. etc, but your way of thinking!
I will bet with my d!ck, with my eyes, or with my life if you so desire, that loads and loads of kids do get laid while not having a car. Go figure!
I dated a girl all last year when I was a junior. I didn't have a car nor could I drive. Sure there would be problems sometimes, but for the most part, it worked out fine. She came over a lot to my house to hang out. Or she drove when we went out. Some girls might *****, but she liked me and understood.
If a girl likes you, she won't mind driving to see you
If a girl likes you, she won't mind driving to see you
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
^__^
Don Juan
That's stupid bro. You're in high school.
Any chick who turns you down for not having a car is probably a superficial b1tch, not worth your time.
Remember, YOU are your greatest asset.
^_^
Any chick who turns you down for not having a car is probably a superficial b1tch, not worth your time.
Remember, YOU are your greatest asset.
^_^
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So much wrong with this post. You need to read the DJ Bible. Link at the bottom of the page.
No, you haven't. You can't say you've had plenty of chances if you've never asked them out. That's like saying "I could be a world class tennis player. I've never played tennis, but if I did I know I would be."youngdon said:Alright I've had plenty of chances to have a GF.
Whether you have a car or not DOES NOT MATTER. It helps, but isn't required. Stop dwelling on this!But the thing that always hit me was not having a car so I never ended up asking them out knowing it wouldn't work out.
Stop looking for a girlfriend. There's this thing called "dating". You do it FIRST, you don't go desperately looking for a girlfriend, all that does is puts you in a desperate mindset.I actually want a girlfriend because its my last year of highschool.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Nah, I've had trouble with this for a while too. To compensate for a lack of a car, you have to overcompensate with game. Once you're in college, unless you're living in a dorm, and if not that, unless you have mad game, dating + car is essential. I actually cared less what people thought of me cause I couldn't drive, but one day I was seeing this girl who was literally on my nuts. Hit it off a couple of times, and then over time she started visiting me less and less, started getting more cold, and one day she abruptly told me "Sorry it's too hard seeing someone who can't drive." Damn near destroyed my confidence.youngdon said:Damn reading your comments actually opened my eyes. I didn't even realize I was making it a big excuse. It probably stemmed from always seeing people with cars having girls.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
I can't wait to get my licence cause I now know how to drive a manual. But man don't make the car compensate for game. Always get game first bro.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
agreed, sounds like a bunch of excusesCaptain said:So much wrong with this post. You need to read the DJ Bible. Link at the bottom of the page.
No, you haven't. You can't say you've had plenty of chances if you've never asked them out. That's like saying "I could be a world class tennis player. I've never played tennis, but if I did I know I would be."
Whether you have a car or not DOES NOT MATTER. It helps, but isn't required. Stop dwelling on this!
Stop looking for a girlfriend. There's this thing called "dating". You do it FIRST, you don't go desperately looking for a girlfriend, all that does is puts you in a desperate mindset.
- comic_relief