Alright I've had plenty of chances to have a GF. But the thing that always hit me was not having a car so I never ended up asking them out knowing it wouldn't work out. Now I have the problem again but, I actually want a girlfriend because its my last year of highschool. My main target doesn't have a car either. So how did all of you get over this? I can't get my license for a another month so but, I don't wanna pass up my chance with my main because one of the guys might get bold and she would be to nice to say no. So how did you guys get over this and isolate outside of school?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No car no girlfriend.
- Thread starter youngdon
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
drewsg
Don Juan
1) Do any of your friends have a car?
2) Take public transportation, if you guys are vibing and have a great time, it won't matter
2) Take public transportation, if you guys are vibing and have a great time, it won't matter
kingsam
Master Don Juan
dude, your making excuses
cars only help with logistics IF you actually ask her out, the car is a no issue unitll you actually ask her out
neither does a car = success
you will have to make do with parents/friends/the bus
if she likes you, it wont be a problem with her...... its only a problem if you make it a problem or let it be one
cars only help with logistics IF you actually ask her out, the car is a no issue unitll you actually ask her out
neither does a car = success
you will have to make do with parents/friends/the bus
if she likes you, it wont be a problem with her...... its only a problem if you make it a problem or let it be one
ChalengeGuyFan
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It can be hard to accept and many people will deny when told so, but it's your psyche that is holding you back!
Not a car, not unfashionable clothes, not the area you live in, etc. etc, but your way of thinking!
I will bet with my d!ck, with my eyes, or with my life if you so desire, that loads and loads of kids do get laid while not having a car. Go figure!
Not a car, not unfashionable clothes, not the area you live in, etc. etc, but your way of thinking!
I will bet with my d!ck, with my eyes, or with my life if you so desire, that loads and loads of kids do get laid while not having a car. Go figure!
I dated a girl all last year when I was a junior. I didn't have a car nor could I drive. Sure there would be problems sometimes, but for the most part, it worked out fine. She came over a lot to my house to hang out. Or she drove when we went out. Some girls might *****, but she liked me and understood.
If a girl likes you, she won't mind driving to see you
If a girl likes you, she won't mind driving to see you
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
^__^
Don Juan
That's stupid bro. You're in high school.
Any chick who turns you down for not having a car is probably a superficial b1tch, not worth your time.
Remember, YOU are your greatest asset.
^_^
Any chick who turns you down for not having a car is probably a superficial b1tch, not worth your time.
Remember, YOU are your greatest asset.
^_^
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So much wrong with this post. You need to read the DJ Bible. Link at the bottom of the page.
No, you haven't. You can't say you've had plenty of chances if you've never asked them out. That's like saying "I could be a world class tennis player. I've never played tennis, but if I did I know I would be."youngdon said:Alright I've had plenty of chances to have a GF.
Whether you have a car or not DOES NOT MATTER. It helps, but isn't required. Stop dwelling on this!But the thing that always hit me was not having a car so I never ended up asking them out knowing it wouldn't work out.
Stop looking for a girlfriend. There's this thing called "dating". You do it FIRST, you don't go desperately looking for a girlfriend, all that does is puts you in a desperate mindset.I actually want a girlfriend because its my last year of highschool.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Nah, I've had trouble with this for a while too. To compensate for a lack of a car, you have to overcompensate with game. Once you're in college, unless you're living in a dorm, and if not that, unless you have mad game, dating + car is essential. I actually cared less what people thought of me cause I couldn't drive, but one day I was seeing this girl who was literally on my nuts. Hit it off a couple of times, and then over time she started visiting me less and less, started getting more cold, and one day she abruptly told me "Sorry it's too hard seeing someone who can't drive." Damn near destroyed my confidence.youngdon said:Damn reading your comments actually opened my eyes. I didn't even realize I was making it a big excuse. It probably stemmed from always seeing people with cars having girls.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
I can't wait to get my licence cause I now know how to drive a manual. But man don't make the car compensate for game. Always get game first bro.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
agreed, sounds like a bunch of excusesCaptain said:So much wrong with this post. You need to read the DJ Bible. Link at the bottom of the page.
No, you haven't. You can't say you've had plenty of chances if you've never asked them out. That's like saying "I could be a world class tennis player. I've never played tennis, but if I did I know I would be."
Whether you have a car or not DOES NOT MATTER. It helps, but isn't required. Stop dwelling on this!
Stop looking for a girlfriend. There's this thing called "dating". You do it FIRST, you don't go desperately looking for a girlfriend, all that does is puts you in a desperate mindset.
- comic_relief