"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No Car in College

Oni

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Hey guys, i want to ask this girl out. she seems to have an extremly high interest in me. The thing is, i didnt bring a car to me so i cant really bring her anywhere. Nothing is within walking distance since my campus is in quite a boring place. There arent that many things to do on campus as well. All i have in mind is pool but then i suck at it haha. Other than that i cant think of any good place to take her out to. Any suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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unorthodox

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See the forest, not the tree in front of you. How about you make a plan on where to take her, invite her to come, call a cabby and go there? I'd use a cabby, lol, you can drink, plus I don't have to worry about parking my beautiful Mustang, getting it dings or dented.

Another idea is to arrange to meet somewhere, that way you can take a bus. But, don't take a bus with her when going to a date or coming back.
 

mrRuckus

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What's with this concept of going on a date? Are you her entertainer? You're in college. All kids do in college is drink and have sex. Get her to come to your room.
 
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