"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NO car, get girls?

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D@mn man, i have no car, but i am workin for one. So it should be here my junior year. You guys have anytips on getting with girls if u got no car. I mean I get with some, but hanging out with girls seems like u need a car, they are just so shallow.

im just wanting ur opinion on this/tips?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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you're buying a car for a girl? or you're wanting to? dude, c'mon..
 

Joe The Homophobe

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Of course you can get girls without having a car, but it is more difficult. In this day and age girls are so expensive that to keep a girlfriend in most places you need a job and a car. You need a job to pay for the restaurants, the gifts, the movies, and you need the car to take her there. In many places girls won't even look at you if they heard you don't have a car. They have become so arrogant and expensive that a poor guy is beneath them.
 

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yes is possible to get girls without a car, but it is hard. Take my word for it, I live in a big city where the only way to get around is a car, is not like you can walk or take the bus anywhere. Having no car has been an incredibly huge barrier for me, not only to get girls, but to do my own stuff bc i have to be constantly asking for a ride. I should be getting one soon though.
 

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i fell your pain

yeah man.ITS HARD WITHOUT A CAR.i just got my license senoir year(yeah ****in late) and i already noticed that the time i spend off school with the ladies had gone up.its not right but that the way it is.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wavejams007

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Hold up, guys. U guys mean that in order to get chicks, it is neccessary to have a car? Bull****. And what is this about living in a city and needing a car to get around. Sorry buddy, you got it wrong. If you live rurally, then there are fewer buses, and cars are more neccessary than if you live in a city. I live in a city of two million people, and I don't have a car, and neither do my parents. So according to you guys, I should be having a very hard time getting girls. I do sometimes, but not do to having a car or not. Come on, guys. Think a little before you give advice.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Hold up, guys. U guys mean that in order to get chicks, it is neccessary to have a car? Bull****. And what is this about living in a city and needing a car to get around. Sorry buddy, you got it wrong. If you live rurally, then there are fewer buses, and cars are more neccessary than if you live in a city. I live in a city of two million people, and I don't have a car, and neither do my parents. So according to you guys, I should be having a very hard time getting girls. I do sometimes, but not do to having a car or not. Come on, guys. Think a little before you give advice.
Wavejam, your info says you live in Ecuador. Things are different here in the USA. If you don't have a car here a female won't even give you the time of day. They are above having a boyfriend that makes them ride the bus to get to places. Sad but this is just the way it is.
 

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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
If you don't have a car here a female won't even give you the time of day. They are above having a boyfriend that makes them ride the bus to get to places. Sad but this is just the way it is.
Joe, you are only limiting your potential by harboring such beliefs. Anything is possible, and the force of Attraction is powerful enough to overcome...practically anything when it comes to the dating scene.
Think about it...many women stay in relationships with abusive pricks who treat them like trash. why? attraction.
Even fat, bald, old, and crippled guys have slept with numerous HBs. why? attraction.
No one can say "this is just the way it is" other than yourself.
 

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Oh jesus christ.
 

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Originally posted by Cloud-uk
Oh jesus christ.
What do you mean?

Also, While I have lived in Ecuador for the past three years, I lived in the USA FOR the other 14 years of my life. But then again, my parents have 2 cars in our house in the states. My dad lets me use his when we are there. so in the states, I don't suffer the same problem.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You can get a girl without havign a car it is possible. Let me get this straight? You want a car just so you can get girls? I'm sure you have other reasons for a car but this sounds like you main one.

So how much are you going to pay for this car? That would be the the price your paying for some girls attention.

Having a car is not all that great. GAS money. People will try to use you as a car ***** to get rides places.

Using a car to get attention from girls isn't too great. Sure you may get to hang around them more but if you have no game then your just their ride.

You don't need a car to get them to like you. Just tell them you'll met them here at this time.

The only good thing a car is for when it comes to girls is the backseat.
 

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Originally posted by Random Hero
You can get a girl without havign a car it is possible. Let me get this straight? You want a car just so you can get girls? I'm sure you have other reasons for a car but this sounds like you main one.

So how much are you going to pay for this car? That would be the the price your paying for some girls attention.

Having a car is not all that great. GAS money. People will try to use you as a car ***** to get rides places.

Using a car to get attention from girls isn't too great. Sure you may get to hang around them more but if you have no game then your just their ride.

You don't need a car to get them to like you. Just tell them you'll met them here at this time.

The only good thing a car is for when it comes to girls is the backseat.
Preach it brother.
 

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man what are you talking about is not hard getting chicks without a car just look for the ones that are not picky some are cool enough for the bus i mean the point here is to get the ball rollin'
 

Joe The Homophobe

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Originally posted by dj in the uprising
man what are you talking about is not hard getting chicks without a car just look for the ones that are not picky some are cool enough for the bus i mean the point here is to get the ball rollin'
the ones that are picky are usually the good ones and hot hb 8-9s. The girls that are cool are usually average. Of course you can get girls without a car. But if you want hb7s and above you need a car.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I didn't get a car until I was a junior in college.

...and their right about the city thing, I live in the sticks, we don't even have a bus in our town.

Take her on a walk, most girls love long walks, when it's nice out, in the evenings, you know. And when there's a coffeeshop or ice cream shop at the end, it's even better.

Borrow a friends car, tell him you'll wash it or put gas in it or whatever.
 

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Another thing is, you don't have to save up all this money forever to get this really expensive car. I don't make millions and I don't like pretending I'm in a different social class than I really am. For like $3000 (what I paid for mine), you can get a nice car that will get you around fine. I got a '98 Ford ZX2 with 90k m.

If a girl won't date you because of the car you drive (or the one you don't drive) she's not worth your time.
 
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