no car can u date-some say yes other say NO

[joe45]

i asked ppl on this and other forums asking "can you date if you have no car", majority of the respnders have said YEs you can. they are dating you and not ur car,take transit if you live in a populated area- i live in vancouver,bc.
i'm 25 my folks have one car and dad uses it all teh time. i was goin to school full time, with the costs of a car, insurance and yes yes gas prices who can afford a car unless folks pay for it. a reasonable price car without breaking down fast is like 7,000 second hand, insurance is 1,300/yr, and gas price now are like $$$$. till i find a real career and good paying job-it means no car. my folks are also very parnoid and over protective about drivng-accidents and getting hurt driving. i asked my folks and they said they won't buy me a car. i didn;t get my license till i was like 23-no point we only had one car in the family and my folks weren't willing to buy another one.

so what do i do wait till i'm 35 and date.lol

i knew some guy-classmates in college who didn't have cars and dated and had gfs. i guess every girl is different.

anyways what do u learn in dating in HS-i can fake experince. anyways i was told by someone in another forum to lie about my age-so they have less expectations like no car, less money as if ur 25 they expect more from u, as if you say ur 22 or 21 its more acceptable and date younger girls. hey i'm asian why not use what u have-younger looks -lol . also i dress younger too -sporty and spiking my hair.

 

[S1NN3R]

Sure you can date with no car, under two circumstances. You're 16, or you live in Manhattan.

 

[poohead]

i wouldn't worry about dating - i'd worry about moving out of your parents house, stop letting them control your life ('over protective'? of a 25 year old son?), getting a good job, your own place and a car (in a year or two you will hit the age where living at home/no career/no car will be a huge red flag for women - if you're not at this point already).

 

[BuckwildNYC]

Sure you can date with no car, under two circumstances. You're 16, or you live in Manhattan.

Exactly, at 25 you better have a real good reason for not having a car. Not having a car is usually the product of not having any MONEY. I'm not saying it's impossible but it's sooooo much easier with a car. I've been w/o my car for a while now cause I caught a DUI last year. My pu$$y percentage has dropped big time. Not so much cause I get rejected it's more like I feel like a jerk having to take the subway to a chicks house. It only works out for me if a girl works in Manhattan and I could just meet her after work for some drinks. Or if she has a car.

And you don't have to have a BMW. Just a decent, fairly new car. Even a 3 year old Honda is better than no car at all. Having an expensive car will get you a "nice car" comment from a chick and that's about it. It really won't get you laid. Especially if you've spent your last cent on it and can't afford to go to a nice restaurant. She either likes you or she don't. A fancy car isn't a deal maker or breaker.

 

[spaceman2001]

Yeah dude, being 25 and not having a car is unacceptable. As mentioned above, it doesn't have to be a BWM, but it's gotta be something. I wouldn't blame a girl at all for not dating a guy who has NO car at that age. I understand you've been having rough times but you gotta do something bro.

 

[coder]

If you can make a women feel enough attraction for you, she will not care if you have a car. If you are looking for a wife, you must have a car and your own place to live. Regardless of dating, you need to get going with your life for yourself. Get going on your career and then get a car and then a place to live. Not for women, but for yourself. If you just want to get laid, learn to be attractive - project your voice, use good posture, be ****y and funny, etc.