"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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no car and i never gave up...

chancer

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Hah, what up all. Real quick, I had a car for some time and then it broke down and got towed. Life seemed miserable atfirst. I just wasn't as efficient overall. Regardless, my game has improved a tremendous amount... I never had girls chase me when i had a car, but they do now.

Now, after about 1.5-2 years, i finally got another car. I also got a cell phone (what we call necessities of life). Things should get better... But I NEVER GAVE UP! and i've come a long ways because of it. Suprisingly I got more ***** when I didn't have a car...

To all of those I don't haves, I lack this, or i have these negative qualities... The only thing that can stop your from getting the girls you want is yourself. Don't dwell on anything in life, do something about it and make things work your way. You don't need a fvcking car. it helps through.

PS I live in LA
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Have you seen the 405? everyone drives a car in LA. A 30 mins car ride can take you 3-4 hours on the bus.
 

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The advantage of the bus is seeing girls that are just as poor as you are. Plus, the people who have to take the bus may have more character than those who are spoilt and have their own car 24/7.

I'd rather take the bus if it means more number closes (and it does!).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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